What do you think of this?

Definitely confront him about it. It might just be an online affair, but it's still an affair! My husband did the same thing, talking to other women online and I found all kind of messages from these girls saying things like, "Ill be dreaming of you tonight..i wish you could have come over, call me!". It's definitely not something to be ignored! Even if nothing happened physically, it is still a sort of affair!

He hasn't been in bed for two weeks because he is chatting with another woman onl.ine and is trying to tell you nothing is going on ?? Talk about gaslighting ...You have to go with your gut feeling and mine is telling me that he has at least an online/emotional affair and if he is not even admitting to it , it doesn't leave you with much options ... I would have a serious talk with him, go to counseling and tyhink about your options...can you go to a friend for a couple of weeks ? Jyst to get a little distance in between you and have some time to get things clear in your mind ? Not a nice situation being into but I know i would take it VERY serious

It's just one step away from an actual physical affair, but yes, he is cheating in his heart.

u got him girl, he just did the biggest mistake of his life, well dont be in a hurry just make sure that he is having an affair, do one thing keep an eye on him for quite a while and confirm it

Go into his email and confront her or pretend your him and break up with her. Pay back!!

i think it is a sign i am sorry to here that hope everything works out for you and God Bless

I don't know if it is an affair yet but it sounds like it is heading for one. Keep going to counseling, they will teach you how to deal with him, if you think he is worth keeping. There is something he isn't telling you that doesnt satisfy his home life. Counseling would do him no good right now because he is in denial.

Hes obviously having an online affair, and I would definately do something about it. Have you confronted him on this issue? If I were you, I would print any evidence out that you can find, and use it as proof when he tries to deny it. Tell him to cut it off

what does RL mean/... what does it stand for.... I am confused with this letters..... and i cannot finalize what the actual matter is until i get the meaning of this RL.....

Put an end to it before it goes to far, he may end up meeting her somewhere and then uh oh.

You have to confront your husband as early as now. But do it in a nice way, don't nag him immediately. Men hate that. Listen to his reasons eventhough you are fuming inside. Tell your husband he has to stop it if it's an online affair. An online affair is the start of an actual affair. Watch out!

yeah I'd say hes cheating! just wonder how many girls on the side he has. Put a stop to it, either your specil to him or your not, if not go find some one who knows how special you really are

i think that he could possibly be cheating but if he isn't and you confront him with this it will probably make him want to cheat!

That would defiantly have me concerned if I found that in my husbands e-mail. I would confront him in a non threatening manner and see what he says. I would also suggest maybe looking into counseling if you want to save your marriage.

it's cheating. Kind of! I think that if your husband is always on line with her, then you have to do something. Why don't you react the same way? Find a friend and do the same. See how he will react if you are going to be the one out of bed at 6 am.

i think uinfaithful is really cool..i would love to do it myself

He's got himself an online girlfriend. Personally, I would take her contact name and email her myself. Maybe she does not know about you, and you need to make it clear to her that you are his wife and you would very much appreciate it if she would back off. If he deny's this then go above his head and go straight to talking to her. Don't be mean, unless you find out that she did know about you...Then I would let her really have it.

Yes he is seeing her especially with him staying up until 6am. Im sorry like the first person said you need to print all of the emails out and confront him. You are worth so much more. Do you think your going to stay with him? I hope you can be ok.

are you sure he hasnt meet her yet?or maybe its just talking,probably because u two dont comunicated anymore,dont get me wrong i am not blaiming u,just trying to figure this out,try to talk to him more ,u are a woman u can tell if his lieing or not,let me know what he said,hope we all can help u

I thank you for allowing to express our opinions. Well, one of the most formidable point is that he's talking with someone over whole night as you said. Also no doubt that you are in the best position to evaluate your relationship. Just analyse and introspect with you also. If the things like this talking for whole night continues then there is something that is really bothering. Kindly get the things clear with your husband. Ask him to kindly contribute to this issue. And for that you have to be very open to him. You should be considerate towards his happiness and not yours. See, it's always the matter of choice and that's why ask him to resolve this issue without keeping any presumptions before conversing each other.Make him so that he realise that better clarify any doubts and suspicion, if any, of each others mind. And talks are the best mean to resolve. Regards