Who should do the first move---the boy or the girl?

Philippines
January 26, 2007 5:50pm CST
Nowadays, women no longer wait for suitors; they can now court some boys they like. Do you think this should continue? Is it okay to make things go that way?
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9 responses
varunshah_99
@varunshah_99 (301)
• India
2 Feb 07
yes I m with you... Todays girls really dont bother if they make the first move... and ther is nothing wrong in that thing...
yvonitz_marian
@yvonitz_marian (117)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
i think it's not good that girls would do the first move for it's not good to hear..haller!!!it should be the boy for thats there purpose..you guys there should do the 1st move..though world seems different..
ChuckGel
@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Maybe its not that girls will have to do the first move...Its just that girls also have the right to let the person they've like, to know how that girl feels but its not that she's now doing the first move. She's only being honest with herself...right?
a_robinnep
@a_robinnep (529)
• Nepal
30 Jan 07
I think its not a problem for girls and boys, who is firstly impress than they do. I think so.
angeljanel24
@angeljanel24 (92)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
it's just ok if a girl makes the first move to get/to catch a guy's attention.. she's just given an extent or limitations in doing so. girls nowadays are more likely to be liberated but still, more girls are still conservative with regards to that matter. it's actually to the person himself if he wants that kind of attitude towards meeting a girl or not. it's all up to him.
elisa812
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I really don't think it matters either way. It's up to the individual person. There's nothing wrong with the traditional way, and I definitely like it that way too. However, I have made the first move with a guy before and that worked out also. I think in today's world, if a woman wants to ask out a man, then she should!
vianney_girl16
@vianney_girl16 (55)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
Haller!!! I think that thing should be banned... In your part maybe i will just ask back woul you let the girl court you?... Its up to a woman... if she'll act such thing... The time of Maria Clara was totally obsolete.... but I don't think so....
nicu1985
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
27 Jan 07
It doesn't matter who does the first step. We are in 3th millenium. If the boy does the first step or the girl nowadays is the same thing. But it depends of the boy or they girl, if someoane is shy is better that the other to make the move
cabergren
@cabergren (1181)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I think if you like someone you should go for it. Whether you are a man or a women. All the other person can say is no. Take the chance.