whats your preferences in having a gf/bf, looks or personality?

Definitely personality, I care more about personality then the looks, physical beauty doesn't last forever and people do get old. it is better to choose someone that is good heart and have great personality. I am not saying that the look is not important just that I care more about personality. I wouldn't mind if my gf doesn't look like a supermodel . I would accept if she is just average looking with good personality. I personally don't believe in plastic surgery and I wouldn't let my gf do it even she want to.

personality, of course is the main reason for me to choose a partner. i can never live with a person having only looks but acts really bad with my friends or family. beauty withers, so they say... besides how will i live with a person who can't get along with me in the first place only having a wonderful appearance is not enough.

WE all would love to find that perfect person that has bothe looks and personality. This is most often not the case. Or if we do they are not for us. My preferance of the two is personality. Looks are only iceing on te cake. If her personality sucks it make no differance how she looks there is no way I would be attracted for long.

im very big into personality.. being superficial isnt going to get anyone a good and real relationship! if u find someone that looks good well thats just an extra bonus :)

Definitely personality! Physical appearance means very little in the grand scheme of things. Stuff happens. I car accident could leave one scared, or being caught in a fire. As your partners ages he or she will no longer look quite so pretty. And so on. Furthermore, attitude/personality is not as easily changed as all that. And, you should never get together with someone because you think they're hot and you can change who they are on the inside. Most people do not change who they are on the inside once they've reached a certain age (late teens most likely). And, those who do truly change who they are only do so because they themselves recognize something within that they do not like and WANT to change. Without the person themselves wanting to change, and taking the initiative to change themselves, there really is no hope of getting them to change. So, with that in mind, I want someone who I can connect with, talk to, who isn't stupid, or mean, or severely lacking in the humor department. Physical appearance plays very little part in my decision making process for this. Some, sure, but it's a very small aspect.

Personality because looks will eventually fade when you grow old. Looks can improve with operations and some cosmetic products but personality is very hard to change or improve. Just as long as the person is neat and clean, it's already okay with me.

Well, I dunno I like a girl that would let me lick her cheeks and bark, and purr like a cat. LOL HOL but still, im scared to purr and stuff because She might think im weird and she would want to break up. :p