Are you afraid of getting old?
By crazy_marie
@crazy_marie (33)
Philippines
19 responses
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
27 Jan 07
The older I get, the Wiser I feel. Hence I whole heartedly accept to experience this natural phenomenon.
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@beutfulmama6701 (1718)
• United States
27 Jan 07
this is one of my fears. not that i have anything against the elderly, my sister works in a nursing home and the stuff that she has to do for them because they are too weak or helpless, it breaks my heart and there are so many medical probelms that the eldery have and i would hate for someone to have to do things likt that for me. like if i cant wipe my own butt whats the point? ya know?
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@jillann (779)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
I am not sure if afraid is the right word to be used, but I do feel intimidated with my age. It's inevitable! We can't do anything to stop aging. I only fear that I won't get married. Till now I haven't found my soul mate, and I am not getting any younger! It freaks me out to think that I'll be alone all my life...
@Jaimee31 (50)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
yes, i'm afraid of not being able to do things i want. i'm alone in life now i have no family. i'm afraid that when the time comes i will be alone without anyone to ask for help nor anyone to be with. i'd rather die early than to grow old =(
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@Jemina (5770)
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28 Jan 07
Gerontophobia--fear of getting old. I am also afraid of it. I'm afraid that when I get old I would be forsaken by my family. Like you I'm not quite prepared for this fact of life. But what can I do? I must face and accept it with all courage. My life is in God's hand. He has never forsaken me and I know He won't forsake me when I get old.
@marymarj2002 (1769)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
I am afraid sometimes of getting older. I hate to think it. But it's a reality and I am going there sooner. So the best way to be happy when I get old is to enjoy my life now and make the most of it. Lastly, I should be rich so I won't beg when I am too old to work.
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@imrajesh (1965)
• India
27 Jan 07
i m not afraid of getting old. i know one day we all have to grow old so there is no point in gettig afraid for that. if u think that by fear of getting old u will not grow old then it is not fair. in fact everyone should be prepared for it just as we enjoyed our childhood and young age.
have a nice day on mylot.
@hopeful28 (1439)
• Singapore
27 Jan 07
It is not so much aging that I fear, it is more the life of independence that I may lose. If I can remain healthy and be financially independent, growing old is not a problem.