have you fallen for your besfriend?

My first love was my best friend way back in college. In high school, I just got crushes. I could not help it becasue of the emotional attachment invested with my friend, I got drawn to the person mear. But it never went as far into having a realtionship since the other person is already committed with somebody else. Up to now, it is only me who knows of this secret. And I just let it be a secret since we reamin good friends up to now. Anyway, I have succeeded in getting rid of the emotional attachment later while not destroying the friendship already established. Though I must admit it was never easy.

yes! but the catch, will you risk the friendship? are you willing to answer the what ifs? do you have the heart to accept the truth?, easier said than done?

A friend becomes best friend only when you develop trust with each other and start enjoying each others' company.There is no wall between them and share their intimate thoughts.

Well, I almost did when we are still in college. Now, we don't have any communications anymore. She has her husband, I have my wife. We parted permanently after we broke up with each other... I really regret that. We should have stayed as best friends. Maybe, she's still around if we did...

i have experience this in my high school days. i did fall for my girl best friend. maybe because i don't have a gf at that time and she is my constant companion. although she is not physically my type i did fell for her. i guess i did not try anything during that time because i'm know her type, and its not me.

I Fell For one of my best friends that i was friends with ever since i was 7. She Shut me down and i havent seen her for i think 2 years.

I think a girl friend or a boyfriend is those people who share sorrow with U and reduce U r tension.

Yes I did and we also give ourselves a chance, we've been in a relationship for 2 months but after that we somehow felt that it's better to best friends b'coz we both afriad to loose a friend and a lover just incase we have some misunderstanding. But even though were just best friends we still see each other and go out sometimes for a date just as friend. We share to each other all our experiences we encountered.

been there... i didnt wanna take the risk coz i was thinking that i might lose her completely in the process. =,(

most of the time!

i did... =( help me.....

yes agree to you so that theres a time that u can see ur self have been fall in love w/ your best friend....

I don't have a male bestfriend to fall inlove with. I believe those who happens to be in this kind of situation are indeed having a hard time weighing things, wether to save the friendship or to take the risk to have their love reciprocated.

i think being best friends is an advantage in having an intimate relationship because you already know each other and even keep secrets of each other (sometimes, too much). but there are risks in falling for your best friend. i wouldn't dare fall for my guy best friend because i'm afraid to jeopardize our friendship. they say that friendship lasts longer than relationships. and i believe that. anyway, many says that loving your bestfriend is one of the most beautiful feelings in the world (that is, if your bestfriend also falls for you)

of course, i will keep her. if she allows it. lol! she's one of my treasures here on earth. =)