How do u advice a freind?
By nightlily
@nightlily (33)
Philippines
January 27, 2007 9:42am CST
A got a call from a freind. She's actually the girlfreind of the man I'm inlove with for a long time; but my freind doesn't knew about the feelings I have for her boyfreind. My freind was really crying hard for she had a great fight with her boyfreind. She told me that she is already planning to break up with him. My heart skip a bit and there was a meak joy behind.Should I encourage her to continue the plan break-up? or should I tell her to be patient and think it over a thousand times?
2 responses
@ihr485 (117)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I think sis whatever her decisions on ending her relationship with her BF will not 100% means that you will have the chance to have her X-BF unless you have a strong feeling that this guy was also attracted to you...as a friend its natural for you to advice her that if she no longer loves this guy, maybe its time for her to give herself a little space to think it over, have a cool off w/ her BF, and if in the end she realized that the feeling is really gone, then its the right time to break up...then let Fate decides...
@charlie69 (334)
•
27 Jan 07
I think you need to try and put your own feelings aside here and think what would be best for your friend. I know it might be hard for you to see them together but if she is happy with him normally then maybe they will be able to sort things out ok.
