Woman Truly Wanting a Baby, But Can't!

United States
January 27, 2007 2:48pm CST
This is a touchy issue, yet is true. I have a very close girlfriend that I grew up with the has been wanting a baby since she was 19 yrs old. Well today, she's 48 yrs old and still no baby. The fact that she has had no baby has consumed her life. Sometimes she hates to see other pregnant women and then are times she just can't be around babies. One day god blessed her to conceive a child, but she had a miscarriage (in 2001). My friend didn't know that she was pregnant and didn't know that she was having a miscarriage. Now every Dec 1st,myself nor my other girl friends do not call her or stop by her house, as all she does is cry the entire day. She feels that she's a little girl inside of her body and a 48 yrs old on the outside of her body because she has not had a child yet. I feel bad for her and I don't know what to do to help her. When I friends and I go to her house, we don't bring our children with us! Please help me help my friend!
1 response
@rein2410 (809)
• Australia
27 Jan 07
It must be really tough for her. Does she follow God? well, God is the only hope in this life and the answers to everything. thats really waht I can say to you. I dont know the exact situation so that I cannot give any good advice right now. I am really sad when I hear your story but God plans are never a bad one in the end. It would seem bad at the start but will be great at then end, but as long as we love him, follow him and obey his commandments. Pray for her everyday without an undying hope and advice her to always pray for God for the bets in her life, God has his own plan, God plan her to be something else maybe. If she suddenly had a child. I am sure she will be a living witness of God's awesome power and miracles.