what should i do to her??????? shall i live or die????
By chowdarygm
@chowdarygm (6)
India
January 28, 2007 1:21am CST
i am an active guy.....i have a very best friend called sravi....we r friends from long time..i share everything with her....after entering teenage i fell in love with her...she is two months elder to me...still i love her so much...i expressed my love as i dont keep any secrets....she rejected first due to our age diff....but kept faith in my love and waited for nearly 3 long years for her acceptance....finally she did....i won world...but as i have to leave for my studies i left for delhi...i was in touch with her daily....dont know what happened as time passed her attitude towards me changed.....she used to get irritated with my phone calls....i got tensed and came home leaving everything....after coming i came to know that she is getting along with another guy.....i was unable to digest the truth but it is the truth....i lost hope in girls......i know her from long time...still i dont know why she did it to me?????? shall i have to take revenge on her or take revenge on myself??? was it my fault??????
2 responses
@beautifulceiling (1300)
• United States
28 Jan 07
There's no need for revenge. Find someone else. She isn't the one for you. Two months isn't enough of an age difference to matter. She was trying to let you down easy. She was sending you signals (acting irritated with your calls) but you weren't picking them up. It's nobody's fault. She likes someone else. You need to let go and find another girl. And try not to act so obsessive. Most girls don't like that.
@chowdarygm (6)
• India
28 Jan 07
sorry yaar........how can i forget?? its not a matter of one or two days or years..................if she dont like why should she accept at first and then ditch me?????
@beautifulceiling (1300)
• United States
28 Jan 07
It could be any number of reasons. She may have gone into it reluctantly to begin with, just to avoid hurting your feelings since you have been close friends. Or she may have changed her mind. Or she may have found someone else. Relationships are complicated. I know it's hard and it hurts, but you can't MAKE someone love you.
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@intro1 (112)
• Indonesia
28 Jan 07
leave your computer go outside and find someone else, dont take revenge on her or on any other girls