Have you ever fallen in love with a man with his wife and children ?

I think you should separate with him, cause that's the only way it should be. If you longer you relationship, you will be hurt & suffer more, and his family will also suffer too. Why not try to look other people, since the he's not the only man in the world. I know it must be hard for you, but I think that's the best for you. Anyway, my best friend has this kind of situation, but finally she ended it up, and now she's planning to marry somebody else.