shuld we change ourself 2 make others happy?????

India
January 28, 2007 2:08am CST
hi friends, need ur suggestions can u tell me shuld we change ourself 2 make others happy. when i was living the life like they needed they were happy but when i started living a bit a life as i like they all had a problem...so now wht to do?? shuld i live the way they they want or my own way???plz reply.....
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@nicolai (288)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
we change ourselves inb away but definitely we do not change our whole self...just enough to make a smooth relationship with other people.
• India
13 Feb 07
very right nicolai...thx for replying
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
First of all you have to analyze the situation. 1. If you live your life the way they want you do live it, are you happy? 2. Are you happy because you can live your life even if they are all against you? Actually I think your situation is hard, but for me, stick to the things that will make you happy, a complete person.
• India
12 Feb 07
hi faylinn, thx for ur reply....i am happy when people around me r happy so for their happiness i will change myself...
@imrajesh (1965)
• India
28 Jan 07
if u really want to make someone happy then u have to be in tune with the person's mood. then u can easily make happy anyone. suppose for example if u want to make a baby laugh who is just 8 months old then u have to behave like a baby for making him laugh. this applies to many more situations although not all situations. so try to change urself and try to be in the other person's shoes so that u can make them happy. have a nice time on mylot.
• India
3 Feb 07
thx a lot rajest i will try my best to be the way they want me..thx
• United States
8 Feb 07
no i dont think we should change ourselves for others. i would live the way i want to. as long as your happy with how you want to live then why change it. i am living how i want to and i'm fairly happy with it. i want to make some changes and do some things but those are the things i want to do to make my life better. if you live there way then you'll regret it because you have wasted your life doing things and living for other people.
• India
8 Feb 07
hey pebbles its easy to say but i cant hurt anyone...i cant see any1 troubled coz of me...i cant live my way.......its impossible for me.
@Kamran4u (25)
• Pakistan
28 Jan 07
there are two things in it if we have some bad things which irritate other so we must have to change ourself not for the others but also for ourself for satisfection and this is my believe that if u change bad habbits then after that u feel an internal sattisfection and after few days if u think on it then u will laugh on it that wat was u doing but if u have v goood habbits then you should not have to change them bc now a days goood things or goood people are vv rare either irritate others or not. But beleave that 1 day wen they realize they will b urs the best example is telling a truth. reply
• India
3 Feb 07
thx a lot,,,sure they r thinking for my best and i will change..........
• India
10 Feb 07
To me the happiness of people around me is more importan then mine.And why not the person around me do too much for me so that i can always be comfortable.So i would readily change,Rather say improve myself to make them happy.It does not mean i can do bad things that dont suit me.Well it will help making world a good place if we all try to improve ourselves
• India
12 Feb 07
thx mohit, yes i will try my best to improve myself coz i love them very much...and even need them the rest of my life...