do you believe that you and your partner really destined?

Philippines
January 28, 2007 3:51am CST
a wonderful hi to mylot people specially those who have a special sum1 or in a ralationship...are you happy with your relationship now?do you believe that he/she is your destiny??me , as what i've seen with people nowadays, they seems not..they have girlfriens/boyfriends left and right..is it right??no it is not.. people do we really need to wait for that destiny of ours or just enjoy life with some people around you..??..these are the very reasons why as of now i'm afraid to enter in a relationship..many are just having prank on you or just serve your relationship as a game..it's like playing.. i'm asking for an opinion today because there is someone in my life asking me to be his gf..it wasalmost 6 months and until now he is willing to be my bf but i didn't answer him yes for the reason that i might get hurt or he might play with my feelings...but as the days passed he always brought me a gift everytime he visits me i never talk him about the relationship...my problem is that should i give him the chance to be my bf or i'll just wait God for Him to bring me my Destiny??pls help me...i need some answers or suggestion of yours...
6 responses
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
Friend, destiny is made by God...I believe it in such a way that is the one who gives us the oppurtunity to have the person for us. He chooses what's best for us....but we should not forget that no one of us knows what's really our destiny....so we have to think twice in our decisions...coz every move you take it can affect your future...remember that they are connected.....Yes, God is indeed the best writer in our love story ...but it is not just an ordinary story....It's a story played by us ...and God gave us the freedom to play our role in the right way....
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
I have heard a lot of people said that destiny decides our partner and i do believe of it because God controls the destiny of our life.God is the writer of our love stories and a designer for He will make it colorful and the best among the best.Don't be afraid to try because there's nothing wrong with trying but you have to be wise in choosing for it really matters.Or maybe God is still making you stronger so one day a guy destined for you will come in your life and say,"I LOVE YOU"....
• India
29 Jan 07
if he has met you itself was destined. i feel there is nothing wrong in giving him a chance to prove himself. nobody is perfect. may be he is the person you are looking for. please do not judge every body one one person. every body is diffrent so give him a chance.
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
For now I can't say YES coz I don't have any partner.... But in your story... I've also experienced the same situation... There's someone who's courting me but I've never minded it since for me I was too young and I need to finish my education... And life is important to me...Honestly speaking I want to be rich that's why I need to go to school.... But maybe someday... I can tell..... just don't give up!!! K?
@geejoy (344)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
Your destiny is your own doing...if you want that you and your partner will end up together...you have to work hard to make your relationship work...its a matter of cooperation and unity among the two of you.....if you love each other and want to spend the rest of your life with him/her, do what you need to do..be loyal to him/her..make your love grow by doing things that will make your love for each other blossom...
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Everything that is happening in our lives is what we call Fate and Destiny. Whatever happened to us then it is already written in the palms of our hands. Yes I would say that wether we like it or not it's our fate to have the our partner!