Do you think Suicide is the solution for problems?
By KrishnaVeera
@KrishnaVeera (4133)
India
January 28, 2007 5:06am CST
Do you think Suicide is the solution for problems?
Sometimes, a person will make actions resembling suicide attempts while not being fully committed, or in a deliberate attempt to have others notice. This is called a suicidal gesture (also known as a "cry for help"). Prototypical methods might be a non-lethal method of self-harm that leaves obvious signs of the attempt, or simply a lethal action at a time when the person considers it likely that he/she will be rescued or prevented from fully carrying it out.
On the other hand, a person who genuinely wishes to die may fail, due to lack of knowledge about what they are doing, unwillingness to try methods that may end in permanent damage if they fail or harm others, or an unanticipated rescue, among other reasons. This is referred to as a suicidal attempt.
Distinguishing between a suicidal attempt and a suicidal gesture may be difficult. Intent and motivation are not always fully discernible since so many people in a suicidal state are genuinely conflicted over whether they wish to end their lives. One approach, assuming that a sufficiently strong intent will ensure success, considers all near-suicides to be suicidal gestures. This however does not explain why so many people who fail at suicide end up with severe injuries, often permanent, which are most likely undesirable to those who are making a suicidal gesture. Another possibility is those wishing merely to make a suicidal gesture may end up accidentally killing themselves, perhaps by underestimating the lethality of the method chosen or by overestimating the possibility of external intervention by others. Suicide-like acts should generally be treated as seriously as possible because if there is an insufficiently strong reaction from loved ones from a suicidal gesture, this may motivate future, and ultimately more committed attempts.
In the technical literature the use of the terms parasuicide, or deliberate self-harm (DSH) are preferred – both of these terms avoid the question of the intent of the actions.
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19 responses
@raghwagh (1527)
• India
28 Jan 07
Sucide is never a solution for any problem.One can solve any problem , how difficult it may be with a cool mind.By suside we create new problems rather than reducing them.if we have a thought of sucide then just think of a person who is handicapped and still livinf happily.Also think of a small Ant which has to face many difficulties just to live still they live happily.Think of donkey, every one beats him and makes it work all the day, still he is happy.Then we as human are far better than them, then why to waste this beautiful god gifted life.One must utilise this life to do something good for others.If you cannot do anything for yourself then divote this life for others rather than wasting it.Help others any see you will be most happy.Never sucied, it is no answer to any problem.
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@KrishnaVeera (4133)
• India
29 Jan 07
Dear friend,
I'm totally confused to whom i have to mark best, because i have received so many response to this topic, Thanks for your response, am grateful to your comment. but i will give + to all the response.
@dhaliwalrosedeep (446)
• India
28 Jan 07
i think sucide is not the solution of problems
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@crosa125 (1483)
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28 Jan 07
well is not a easy thing to do i thing they have to reach to that certian point which they can'ttake it any more, what is going to push them that far is the important bit, but is not a solution,but there is not any better way for most of them,there is not a helping hand.
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@Rajendra_20 (139)
• India
29 Jan 07
it is right say that "NO GAIN WITHOUT PAIN" this is stupidity, if some one facing any type of problem he share his family first.
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@dfordesmond (41)
• India
29 Jan 07
suiside sux!!!
its only fore those who dont deserve to live.they dont value their life thats y they just wana give it up.
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@fantasyeagle (17)
• China
28 Jan 07
Suiside is never a solution for any problems.Life is the gift sent by the God.Only the weak people will wate the gargeous present.
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@hellboi (661)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
No! It is plain cowardice to face the challenges in life. Challenges that we have to face each day to become a better person. Although our life maybe be at times hopeless to our own standards, think of other people who doesn't have homes, who just sleep on the streets, who eat just one meal a day yet they never give up on life. So you should be ashamed to give up on life that easily. Live on and fight!
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@Blazterino (2)
• Indonesia
29 Jan 07
no, i don't
just frustrated man/women who take this way
i think we still have another way to solve your problem
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@4karmas (19)
• Indonesia
29 Jan 07
Suiside is absolutely not a problem solver, no matter how we may translate it. Let's run away from any kinds of problems we have and let's just see where this is going to lead us. If I ask myself which does matter to me, "solved" or "how it is solved", I would answer myself that what we have achieved in life can only be measured and NOT as how much distruction we are able to create,
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@rapolu_cs (1184)
• India
28 Jan 07
No not at all. May be u have to face it with more confident. Life is full of problems, if each and every body thinks like you then there will be no human on this earth. Just pray God and be with the good u will have good life. All the best in ur life.
@nileshmamgain (27)
• India
28 Jan 07
no not at all life is beautiful and brings many oppotunities.live and see what all it brings
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@kennisha4eva (84)
• United States
28 Jan 07
no i think that if you have a problem that bad killing yourself wouldn't solve anything that would be the same as running away almost i would just go see a therapist