Can love really find you?
By shomomo
@shomomo (850)
Israel
January 28, 2007 1:47pm CST
I keep talking to my friends about the fact that I gave up, gave up on happiness, love and things like that.
They keep telling me that love will eventually emerge and it will happen sooner or later.
I don't believe it.
9 responses
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
28 Jan 07
It would be very sad if you keep yourself closed off to the possibility of love in your life. They say that love comes to us when we are not looking. I believe that.. because people who are constantly looking develop anxiety which clouds their minds and gives off a negative energy.
If you do not leave the door to your heart open for love, people will sense that and stay away. Please don't do that to yourself.
A famous quote: It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
@vityota (878)
• India
28 Jan 07
i think you have been waiting for a long time or expecting for a long time and that is why you have got upset and feel unhappy and discouraged.. but what your friends are telling you is true.. everything will happen slowly but successfully and one day or the other you will get the love and will get back your happiness.. let me tell you one thing in life love can come anytime and in any way without you even recognising it so see the good things in everything and ultimately love will enter your life
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
7 Jul 07
Hang in there, I truly believe that Mr. or Mrs. Right is out there for you,but you can't always look for them. Sometimes they might just suddenly appear.
I was sitting at the kitchen table eating the first time I seen my husband. He knew my brother and came to look at a truck that he had. We got to talking the next day when he stopped by and after a year or so we started dating. We have now been together for almost 13 years.
@chocklitchip (472)
• Pakistan
28 Jan 07
yess...love does find a way to u...but the key is u must not get too freaky running after love...it wil occur to u at the right time itself...
@marief2rnurse (2704)
• United States
28 Jan 07
Yes it can and it's so much better when it finds you and not you looking for it. It has happened to me many times when I least expected it. One time, my friends met this guy online who lives here locally, they invited him to come to my house to fix my computer because it got too many viruses while I was on vacation. This guy was interested with my friend but they were only friends, he just wanted to see her but liked me instead when he came. I also noticed that he was my type and we spoke alone for that whole entire day and night... calls followed and before that, we were really hitting it off...
Just prepare yourself for your new guy. My good friend is always saying that you should take care of yourself so that when the right person comes he will not only like you but will also be impressed.
@ako_me (60)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
don't look for love and let love find you...
i always say that to my friends who's been kinda troubled in finding a partner. i believe it myself, have experienced it once or twice in my life. though i haven't found my one true love, not yet, i still believe i will, and love will find me.
don't give up, it may find you in the most unlikely places...