Which is which in love

i do need and want my boyfriend in my life because i love him so much. i find more meaning to this line. i find the line i love you because i need you seems selfish. i need my boyfriend because i love him. he means the world to me. without me, i am nothing.

it'd the feeling about him/her in our mind and nothing more

I duno wat is the rite answer for this question, I really can't figure out for my self, It looks like I am addicted to the person i love. Its like I have to see on ce for onces, or other wise my day will go bad. Or hear him. I think there is a need and want both and ofcourse love is on the top. but the other most important thing is that He loves me.

To need is to love. Love is also a concept that has to be defined and re-defined and there can be love between a brother/sister, friend and partner. Need is inborn, look at a baby and you'd understand what I mean. But I'm not talking about neediness either. In my relationship with my future partner, I am involved forever bc of need and bc I want to develop a deep relationship with him and that may involve 'pain' from time to time. I say I place God first before him, but that may not happen all the time. In any relationship, let alone a close and intimate one, it takes a lot of 'work', initially. Then you get familiar and understand how to allow the weaknesses some slack while bringing up the strengths. I'm still learning in this aspect. Being humble, as I age, allows me to listen without judgment. I don't feel jaded, but I do sometimes get 'down' on some things.