to know when to be generous and when to firm.this is wisdom.......

this is totaly true ..... being youre true self is one thing , but when you have to be firm DO IT ! or you risk loosing

We always want to be firm. This is part of the disciplining exercise we do so as to spoil anyone, especially the children. However, there are times when we want to splurge. So, bring everyone out, have a hearty meal somewhere, and everyone buys those things they've wanted for soooo looong. Everyone is happy and everyone says that he is looking forward for the next splurging day. It's alright to do this once in a while. If we splurge every weekend, will it not cause financial havoc only? No, not just that - the fun is gone and, so is the excitement.

i agree with that idea... :)