What will you do if your best friend stole your girl/boyfriend ???

Indonesia
January 28, 2007 4:15pm CST
Best friend is someone you can trust, you can count on, eveb the one you share your secrets with. But what if someday he/she cheat on you by stealing your girl/boyfriend ??? What will you do ??? Can you forgive him/her? Are you still make him/her your bestfriend? Do you still believe in him/her? Please help by telling what to do with this person you called "best friend"
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4 responses
• Australia
2 Feb 07
Does this happen to you personally or something? Anyways what I is that if my boyfriend runaway with my bestfriend, then he is not trustworthy and also my best friend is not a real bestfriend if she can steal my boyfriend. What they should do is talk to me openly if my boyfriend wants to break up and he has no feeling for me any more then it is fine if after break up he wants to go out with my best friend but not cheating I would not tolerate that. Yeah I can forgive them (well in theory at least I am willing to forgive them, because it has happend in the past) because that just means that I choose a wrong boyfriend and wrong bestfriend :) And Im sure that the my real soulmate would come to me anyways :)
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• Indonesia
6 Feb 07
I agree, It's much better if they talk than stab me in the back. At least it means they're honnest and may be I still can trust them.
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• United States
1 Feb 07
What I will do is to look into myself as to the basic causes why my friend went away with him.Was there any of my fault?If not, then, I will surely but politely end my relations with that so called close friend.It is better to start new chapter.
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• India
6 Feb 07
i ll talk to the girl and find out whether she love me or my best friend..if she says me then i ll talk to my friend and try to convince him that she loves only me on the other way if she loves my friend then i ll let her go because i love her and i want that she should remain happy throughout her life
• Indonesia
13 Feb 07
If the girl loves you more, she won't do that. I don't mind if she loves other. But at least she and the best friend have to be honnest, because you trusted them.
• Indonesia
1 Feb 07
Hmm maybe first, you will so sad because u betrayed by your best friend n ur girlfriend but you must move on from your condition because that can make your always hate them and sad. maybve you learn to forgive them. Who knows thir relationship can fine or maybe worse? After you can move on forgive them. Maybe try to build your relation with your best friend again and your ex-grilfriend just as your friend not more than that. That's just my opinion but it's hard to do it maybe if you wanna try why not ^^
• Indonesia
6 Feb 07
May be I can forgive them. I guess it's already difficult to forget them, but build realationship again with them? Isn't it just makes remind me again? What kind of relationship it'll be?