i was just being honest !

it happened to me two times , , the first and second time it hurt that person badly , , but with the two experiences , , i have learned my lesson , , sometimes , , you have to know the person first , , i mean , , if you don't know his/her attitude , , you might as well keep your mouth shut , , and if you really want to be honest , , make sure that you are telling it not in a tactful manner, , you get me? , , please , , be careful in choosing the words that you are going to use , , it hurts so much when your intentions are good but just end up being bad just because of the wrong words that we have used , , :(

Yes it happened with me and happened to me too.. to hurt or get hurt by honesty is a common thing but when the person really means no harm we realize it afterwards and it all heals..