what is your ideal age in getting married?

Philippines
January 28, 2007 8:56pm CST
some says that it is better to get married early so that you can see your child grow up and have its own family. while others wanna enjoy being single first before settling down. how about you, how old are you before you get married?
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@victorwzj (539)
29 Jan 07
In my opinion the idea age for getting married is the early the better. As you already mention , if you have kid in the your early you can see your "kid" grow up and even be grand parent at early 50 . Single life is pathetic and no one like being single unless "he or she" enjoy moving from relationship to relationship.
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• India
29 Jan 07
Hi, It is always good to get married early, provided you are confident of maintaining your family. In fact, even if you are ready 50 % in terms of earning potential to take care of the family, it should be good enough to get started. Having children early also makes you strong and encourages you to start saving early and think about the future of children. Ideal age for men to get married is after 25 and before 28. For Females, between 18 and 22. I got married when I was 28.
@sureshmoe (974)
• India
29 Jan 07
At the age of 24...
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@god_spear (498)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
For me i think 25 yrs old especially women since the reproductive sytem of women are fully developed, it is in medical aspects and also you can enjoy with your children while your are still young and you can take care of them.I was married at the age of 27 and we were gifted with four children 2 boys and 2 girls. It is a very interesting and tiring also because im the one who look after all my children since my wife was a nurse and she had to go to her duty even if its already evenign since her tour of duty is from 10 Pm to 6 AM the following day. Time so fast all our children have already grown we have college, high school and two in elementary. As much as possible we tried our best to giver the best care to our children. How about you are you already married or planning to? If you think you' ready. GO AHEAD MAKE YOUR DAY. Advance Congratulations and beste wishes.
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• Philippines
29 Jan 07
i don't believe in marriage..marriage tend to bind individual person that sometimes fail to do their responsibilities..and it's awful right??beside having affair is always coming unexpected..so if the time comes that I'm ready,so be it..
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@rannah (11)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
at age of 25, but i got pregnant at age of 23 that's why im married now. lol
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• Nigeria
29 Jan 07
There shouldnt be a set number as to what age is right for marriage. Whats right for me may not be right for you. I would want my sister to wait till she is stable and set in a career and able to emotionally and finacially stand on her own before she got married.. doesnt matter the age. She may have all that done by 25 or not until 45.
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• India
29 Jan 07
there is no ideal age.. there is a legal age and after that all ages are ideal depending on person to person and their conditions
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@hobohobo (678)
• Indonesia
29 Jan 07
there is no ideal age in getting married for me, getting maried not depend on age but on our preparation, if we ready for married so what we waiting for if we have find the right person for us, and no word "to late" for married too, for example my father married my mom when his age are 23 years old, but my uncle just married when he 45 years old, and now both of them family are harmonies. So if we ready why we dont do it.
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@zhell_12 (119)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
if ur emotionally, financially and spiritually ready for marriage then gor for it. for me, age does not matter when it comes to marriage. i am 28 right now but not financially ready that's why im still single.
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@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Getting married is being ready to face the real world, not simply that you are in love but you have to talk with your partner if he is ready for life. Getting children, the responsibilities being parents and a long time relationship that you have to discuss with him to include the nod of parents. When you marry at a young age, maybe you will see your grandchildren, if both of you help in earning, then life will be easy for the education of children. Look at the other side, I have a friend who got married at 48 years old, he got a child after a year, when he is 60 years old, he will still need to work for his child is only in the elementary grades, except if during his bachelors time, he already save every thing. Did you get my point of view, well I hope you can decide which age is good to marry. May God Bless you....
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I was 25 years old when I get married. I think the best time to get married is when you are mature enough to take in the responsibility that marriage life brings. It doesn't matter if you're 20 something, 30 or 40, as long as you are ready financially and emotionally.
@blindedfox (3315)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I think greater than or equal to 25 but not more than 30. Well, that is just based on my own opinion. Other people get married before their 20th birthday but the marriage became successful. Others are just the exact opposite. I hope i don't end up like the latter!
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• United States
29 Jan 07
I think maturity level has more to do with marriage than an actual number/age. There are plenty of people out there who are middle-aged and still aren't ready for marriage because they are too immature. Then there are young ones, who are more mature than some adults. I was 19 when I got married, but I also matured a lot more than many people my age because of certain experiences and situations in life.
@domenyag (1273)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
at age 25 that is why i am married now
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