do u guys will give him a chance?

yes we have our weakness but we should learn to strengten it. As for your friend if she was cheated by that bf of her again and again what should be the reason to give him the chance. Of course its the love that she feel and thats her weakness so that would mean se just let that guy hurt her again and again. remember a cheater is always a cheater. Personally if i were her i will not give him a chance. Once is enough and many times is too much. She should retain a little respect and pride for herself. So that people will also respect her. IN that case if it happens many times the guy is aware of the weakness of your friend and he is abusing it because he knows that your friend will give him a chance. She should look for the one who will deserve her love and not be fooled by a cheater.

I read somewhere that "attraction isn't a choice." And your friend clearly is very attracted to that guy. Hmm - maybe the guy will come back when they break up again? Hey, just might happen to you someday, who knows. You can learn something from what she does.

i had been to an 8 year relationship with my ex who is a habitual liar and a habitual cheater. i love him that i always forgive him even the fact that he cheats on me most of the time. there was even twice when he broke up with me because he said he found someone else. and after a few months, he returned to me saying that it's me he loved and not the other woman. and fool as i was, i kept of forgiving him. but after 8 years i woke up in the reality that he will no longer change and that if i keep the relationship going, i will always get hurt in the process and i will never be happy. i broke up with him and it hurt a lot because i love him even if he's like that. but reality says i need to move on. and i did. for more than a year, i never fell inlove with someone. and now, i am in a happy relationship for 9 months now with my boyfriend who loves, trusts and makes me feel so special. i hope your friend will learn how to make herself happy by letting go off a cheating boyfriend. she will just get hurt all the time. just be there for your friend. she needs you.

some women are weak too. i bet her ex-bf is weaker than her because he keeps coming back to her to have someone to depend on or maybe the attachment that he feels for her. But I believe that once is enough, if he cheated on her once, it's enough lesson for her to move on and allow change to take place. Without this, she won't earn the self-esteem that she deserves and her reputation at the same time. If she continues the relationship with him, her self-esteem might be continuously downgraded.

His boyfriend is a liar, he doesn't love her, time will come that his boyfriend will also say to other girl that he has no feeling for your friend anymore to win this new girl. That's an alibi we guys always use to win a girl. Tell her to use her head, if you let your emotion control you, you'll end loosing everything.

Helo I think that he should not be given a chance. If some one can cheat once than he can cheat next time also. If you will give one more chance to him than you will give him one more chance to hurt you. i hope your boyfriend will not get offended by my reply. If you feel like forgiving him it will be up to you. Bye Best of luck

he's been stupid enough by fooling your friend once. but your friend is stupid by letting herself to be fooled more than twice... those kind of guy shouldn't give him a chance in that case.. probably he will change someday, but your friend is not the right person to change him

I never gave him a chance...if I gave him a chance, that implies I have no sense and no sense of analysing the matter...

if you have a relation ship with her and now her boyfriend want to comeback again and suddenly said he want to patch thing up with her again. this that she love very much but is also the one who always cheated her, they have been broken up cause of he have a new girlfriend,it is depend on her if she convince that he will not to do again and let her to give him a chance once and if he do again do not forgive him anymore

i just read ur post, by the way i'm nhoj. well, as an advice, your friend should use her head over her heart. the guy already cheated her many times you said. it is about time for her to move on. I believe that she invested more on her feelings for that guy, but honestly, it's not mutual between the two of them. she loved him so much but im sure that the guy didn't love her that way. there are other guys there that are deserving. it is not love that matters all the time, there should also be trust and sincerity. what is love when there is no trust right? good day!

why to chose a guy who cheated her so many times...ask her to meet me and i'll try to become her new boyfriend...wat u say??

Love will only work out if they both love each other, but then that kind of guy wont take her seriously, he's obviously playing around since he keeps on cheating on her and telling others that he doesnt love her anymore. There are lots of guys in the world and he's not for her. she doesnt deserve him. True love will definitely come on time. He'll only make her cry. She'll only regret meeting her in due time.

That guy was just playing her. I don't think that she was weak. The poor thing just really loved him and it's always hard to let go of someone you truly care about. It takes us women a little while to come to our senses, but that doesn't mean we're weak. And hey! What ever hurts us, makes us stronger! But I hope she gets over it and feels better.

err.....no one should judge a relationship jus over tat few lines,matter of d heart is so not simple,i would jus say as long she is happy over to d guy then life so short 2 hav regrets latter,jus do it n live happy :

Well for me.. she must move on with her life without his stupid ex boyfriend.. If she love herself then dont give her ex boyfriend a chance anymore... one is enough, two is too much! Cheating is a big issue in a relationship, if he cheats on you before, he can do that over and over again. HOw can you trust a person that cheats you not just once. For me trust is very important, if you cant trust him anymore then no need to give him a chance. Move on, theres a lot of guys there better than him, who will love you trully and not cheat on you. Her ex boyfriend is such a looser.

oh my, when will she learn?? anyway, just stick w/ ur friend even if she has made her wrong decision. and when time comes that she is down again, remain with her to support and make her recover. i know everything has and end, maybe she has not yet reached that but i know she will come to that point. well, have a very understanding day!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i have only one thing to say to ur friend, dont trust that man

hello friend, you should tell your friend, to give up on him, it is not love that she had for him, maybe just miss of having someone, she is better off with someone else, i am sure there is tons of guys out there would treat her better, but also tell her this saying" fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" she need to get over with him.

I totally agree with you all ,but at the same time i belive that woman are litte more emotional than men ,hence tney often forgive a person who betray them. Also most of the cases which i have seen woman are bit confused also,they find it difficult to take harsh descision

I THINK THAT EVERYONE HAVE A DIFFRENT TYPE SO U MUSTN,T HAPPEN TO U