what is really a true friend?

Philippines
January 28, 2007 10:17pm CST
i been have a lot of friend since elementary and i treasure them all in my heart and when i took my high school we had not meet for about for year and when we see each other he change a lot and i dont why. For the second time when i was in high school i tell him that he was my bestfriend and he knows it but when he signed in my slam note he deny me as his best friend and i was hurt at that and now i put it in my mind that friends are just comes and goes never be forever? Do you agree with me?
1 response
• Nigeria
29 Jan 07
Hello.Your questioun is really interesting and i believe its the same i have been asking myself lots of times.Do real friends exist?You are right we are really busy working and forget about them.You can find true friends really rare,You call someone your friend but youy really dont know if he is honest with you.You dont search for real friends!They will come to you soon or later.Unfortunately nowadays a true friend is really hard to find.Someone who wont lie to you and use you,its difficult to find a friend who will respect you and who will like you because of who you are inside,not because you have something he wants or because you are popular.You cant trust a stranger,because you dont know what he really thinks.Internet friends are nice too,but they cant be trusted.you can speak with them,but never belive them.You dont know if they are telling the truth or they are using you.So i have always believe that you should meet friends in the real life.After you have trusted someone,then you can really share things with him and appreciate his friendship.However you cant just know a person for a month and tell yourself that he is your true friend.If a friend tell you a lie sometimes is because he wants to protect you,but sometimes its the other way.So i think there are real friends,but they dont fall from the sky!Some day you will find a friend who you really trust and respect,and someone who cares about you and never lets you down! Good luck if you are searching for that kind of friend and if you have already found him be happy!