cheating

I think its not only the excitement. Its also to experince something new. It's like if you have been awake for a long time what you do is sleep. And when you wake up you feel much better. I think its same as cheating. You get awake from someone for a short time and feel something new. And when you get back to your love one you feel better again.

I think people cheat because of an emptyness or void they fell. the problem is, they think the void is something they are missing from the one they are with. the truth is almost always that the void is created by themselves. The person cheating has created the very thing they are trying to escape. Too often people see cheating as an easy out for excitement; instead, it is just a diversion from the truth and it often winds up hurting the innocent.

I think people cheat, because they really like the extra attention they receive from somone else. I don't think they set out to cheat, I think it works into it. First they find someone who they have stuff in common, then they strat hanging out with them or just talking to them. This brings them closer, then they find this person is easier to talk to , which of course because they are an outsider. Cheater mislead themselves into thinking this person is much better than the one they are with. One thing leads to another and before you know they are having a fling. By the time they realize what they are doing it is too late. They are now a cheater.

I believe that people cheat for all of the above reasons! I believe that a person will choose to cheat because they feel that they are lacking something in their relationship. A person will also cheat because of the excitement that it can sometimes arouse in a person. I also believe that cheating can be a spontaneous act and it just happens at times!!!