how to show ur feeling to some one u r not interested ??
By oleinoleo
@oleinoleo (389)
Malaysia
January 29, 2007 12:20am CST
for me, i'm just ignoring him.. mybe he still keep trying approach me..but the final way is telling him that i am not interested with him. so, what about you?? erm..can we share some tips..or maybe u have an experience on it???
4 responses
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
29 Jan 07
First thing, I turly believe that you can make any relationship by force. You cant force anyone to love you or like you.
I had such situations many times. I use to travel to my office in office cab. There were one girl who had joined the office long after me. I am very much friendly guy and my sense of humour is also good. I have many friends but I dont make friends like that only. They need to be a very special for me.
So, this girl started talking with me very friendly and I was behaving very formal. I asked her to be in the limit but she was too much. The first anyone can do in such situation is ignoring the person and so I did. Many a times happend that she came to me when I was bussy with my own friends and all. I really did not like that and so I insulted her in front of everyone.
I know, it was not fair but I had to do that. I don't have any personal problems with that girl. Its just that I don't like her being my friend.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
thanks for sharing your story.. as a girl, i think that you should not do like that. u embrassed her in front of everyone. it is not good. instead, she just showing her interested to you.. mybe it is her own style. just speek to her in personal way. dont treat her like that. i think she didnt know how to approach you..
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
30 Jan 07
I understand that and I am sorry if you feels like being offended as being a girl. Many a times personally I have made her realised that I am really not at all interested in you. She continued the same behaviour and then I though to do such things. But believe me I was not that much rude sa you are thinking. And let me tell you that she has not approched me after that incidence.
But thank you very much for that good suggestions.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
thanks for your comment. i heared this from my friend.. he dont like this girl..she always busy body with some one works. so, every body boycott her and no one intersted being her friend. so, what else she can do??? it is her fault.
@Vettriselvan (779)
• India
29 Jan 07
try not to met him often.Dont move along with him. Try to talk with his enemies. Then automatically he will not join u.
@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
i did in the past..actually he was a friend of my fist bf..he keep on approaching me one time i told him that ur friend is my boyfriend and i told him directly that we can never be more than friends. maybe he did accepted coz finally he avoided me. he is my friend and he misunderstood the friendship i show on him, he just thought i like him too. but my boyfriend who happens to be his friend we broke-up long time ago.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
yes, for me also, i cant accept friend as bf. i dont know y, but we cant force our feeling to love and like someone. its naturally comes from our heart.
