loosing your loveone?

i feel for you. but i lost my mom too about 3 years back. i feel so bad loosing her. she's my idol, my everyhting. i owe her my life, who ever i am now. im just so thankful that i was able to show her how i love her. i am confident that before she left. she knew how much i love her. and as the eldest in the family. i knew i did a great job replacing her as a mother. i know no one can ever be like her, but atlest i know i didnt disappoint her. she made a great person in me. i believe i am. i love you mom! rest in peace!

Among the ones I've lost, it's my dad too that I consider the one that mattered most. Our parents have done so much for us from childhood till adulthood. This explains why we are most attached to them. When I realized my dad was really weak already, I asked him to live with me so I can take care of him day in and day out. But, he declined. Says, he's got a home of his own where he could die anytime. I do not harbor any guilt feelings for I know I did everything to be of help during the last days of his life. For your case, I hope you go on with your life. Wallowing in pain will not help you in any way at all. Pick up the pieces of you life and go on with the fight. There's nothing you can do to change the past except to learn from the experience and try not to commit the same mistakes in the future.

don't loose your parent, first of all you hav to share with them, you must take confidance to ur parent.