What would you do. . .
By cheerldr
@cheerldr (594)
Philippines
January 29, 2007 7:45am CST
Imagine yourself walking along the beach, the sun is just starting to set, and somebody is walking up to you... That person is the one who you loved most in the past but he just left you for somebpdy else. He said" I beg you, Please come back to me coz I still love you.". You can feel his sincerity and you know to yourself that you still have feelings for him..
But suddenly, someone called out you name. It is the person who love you the most. The person who made you smile when you were at the saddest point in your life.
Who would you choose?
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65 responses
@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
the person who called me, no way will i ever go back for him...
i will just tell him the truth..
"since you have left me for someone else, all those hurtful depressing time... you were never there, thats why today might be too late, because i have found the person who will love me more than you do"
past is past, no matter what had happened, the gift was given in a very broad view... and that gift is the other person who will be there for you, who spent patience and truthfulness... a person who shall not abandon and make fun of you.. what he did was like treating you like a trash, all of a sudden he comes back and begs.. for what, to love him again, eventually as time goes by, he sees another lust unto another woman... and thus the story repeats intself, again, abandoning you.
no matter what he do... damage is done, and he can never turn back the tears, the pain and most of all he can never turn back the time.
@lancomegirl (257)
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30 Jan 07
thats cool message...sometimes when u give someone a chance to love u as many times as they like but dont give him a chance to hurt again and again.
@mansha (6298)
• India
29 Jan 07
I think I will say this to him that sorry, duidre yuou missed the boat, I no longer care for you and walk away towards the one who was there all along for me in my sorrow. ALways marry the person who loves you not the one you love, that will be the best choice you can ever make.
@mindz_me (179)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
I'l choose the one who make me smile and happy at my saddest days. Maybe i can talk to the person i loved before some other time if ever we will meet again that he is past already. Tell him just to find another and move on his life and wont bother me.
@nippunmalik (31)
• India
29 Jan 07
i would pass/move from there without watching or looking at
her but from within i would feel guilty because...
I STILL LOVE HER FROM HEART.....
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@techsam (158)
• India
29 Jan 07
You still got feelings for your past love and you talking about taking a decision??
Let me put it to you very honestly, you are cheating your present love and you are being dishonest to yourself!! As for your past, be totally sure that this person is coming back to you with full sincerity and does realise your true worth, if it is so its time for you to sit back and think a decision only you can take.... remember "You are your own Doctor!!". Only you can trea, your self in such matters, and what others say is unimportant, do what your heart tells you!!
@techsam (158)
• India
30 Jan 07
As I said, it won't be an easy decision to take. "Trust" .... si relative..... you always trust people... either to be good or bad!! So, with the former chap, you really cannot be sure he won't do a double take all of a sudden and again walk out..... the second guy obviously would stay around, or so you trust him to be, coz he has already done so....
But in that case, why do you want to stay on with teh 2nd fella? is it because, he is honest and thus won't hurt you the way were hurt by no.1?
or is it because you can actually love this 2nd guy unconditionally??
If its teh second, you know whom to choose. If the former wait..... think.. probably you are not yet ready for committment..... don't ruin someone else's life because of your own insecurities!!
@docdoc (8)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
true ..but now its a matter of trsut ..do u seriously think she cld trust him again..what is the guarantee he wont do this to her again..?!i think she should be honest to this other guy ..and tell him everything abt her past..!!and leave everything up 2 God and go with the flow!!what ever happens happens for a reason!
@docdoc (8)
• Pakistan
30 Jan 07
true ..but now its a matter of trust ..do u seriously think she cld trust him again..what is the guarantee he wont do this to her again..?!i think she should be honest to this other guy ..and tell him everything abt her past..!!and leave everything up 2 God and go with the flow!!what ever happens happens for a reason!
@chaptermm (730)
• United States
30 Jan 07
do what ever i want to do and this is a very nice imgation
@hiddenheartin (300)
• India
30 Jan 07
its a strange feelin.. no matter what they did to me..i'll just forgive them and give a smile.. cos she might be changed person forget abt da past and thing abt da future..
@dejsmiles (52)
• Nigeria
30 Jan 07
I will say it's better you choose the one that loves you and made you smile at the saddest moment and try to develop your love for the person,but just try to do away with the hold one because he may still come up with what has happened before.
@fabwisp (1327)
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30 Jan 07
oh blimey! My head would say stick with what you got, but am sure my heart would tell me to give the other another chance. Honest answer.... I dont know! I think that is one of them questions where we all know what we should do, or would like to think we would but at that precise moment....
@brihanna (381)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I made that choice before-do I stay with the person who I love, or the person who loves me. I chose the one I loved the most. I am not sure if it was the right choice, and at times I wonder if I should have been with the guy that loved me the most-I probably should have just stayed single, and dated both of them.LOL
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
30 Jan 07
hahahah. that's funny. but sometimes, we need to make decisions and that we need to stick to our decisions no matter what the outcome might be.
@adasadhikari (27)
• India
30 Jan 07
i choose the person who love me most because he give me the smile when i was sad.actually he was the friend in my life who was with me all my life.
@kalyantej143 (10)
• India
30 Jan 07
i will think for a while iclose my eyes and think for a while who ever comes to my mind i will select them
probably its the person who loves me the most
because loving means its a one of the tool for humanbeing that can destroy all the sad feelings and can make us happy.
the one i liked most hasd once left me for others sake and i dont have any assurance that he will lead his full lifewth me the one who is back of me even in the stage of difficulties is the really the person i should go with.
@miermor_76 (7)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
WELL...WE THINK BATER U CHOOSE THE SECOND PERSONL COZ U DONT NEED REMEMBER THE PASS RIGHT ...FOLLOWER UR HEART
@crystal2005 (148)
• Singapore
30 Jan 07
This is hard to make the decisions. I don't even know whether i have to hate this kind of moment or not. Love problem always make me confuse, such this problem i might not choose both. What a pity.
@rhie0216 (289)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
It depends on how grave you have been hurt. I believe that it is better to live with someone that you truly love than to live for the rest of your life with someone that love you. It is so unfair for that person if you continue to pretend to love him if in fact you have someone else in your heart. It is like cheating him without him knowing. You won't be happy in your life if the man your with, is not the one that your heart is aching for.
