Why we never forget our first love ??
By kuntal41101
@kuntal41101 (366)
India
January 29, 2007 9:49am CST
The question remained illusive till date... but i couldn't find the proper answer to that and this is true for each and everyone. The question is :
"Why we never forget our first love ??"
So i am putting forward this same question to you... got any answer ??
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9 responses
@rush_nvr_say_die (45)
• India
30 Jan 07
Well I have a different prospective to this. Love cannot be first, second, third, fourth and so on.... It can be infatuations, likings, or little lesser a feeling than what you have felt for a person, first time in your life....
If thats your "FIRST LOVE", then thats the only Love of your life... Rest all are relationships which keep on making or breaking... and in none of these the feelings are as strong, as intense, and as true as it must be wid ur FIRST LOVE..... hence its difficult to forget it....
Cn u really forget ur true luv? and if at all you can forget it, then tat was never the true love of your life....
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@kuntal41101 (366)
• India
30 Jan 07
Thats nice description !! so do you have any childhood sweetheart or crush ?? i mean the first one!!
@rush_nvr_say_die (45)
• India
31 Jan 07
ummm NO..... there cn be N number of reasons for that, or may b no reason... .But never had a crush or FIRST LOVE (I wud still insist LOVE is just once in LIFE... u cn have n number of relationships though.....)
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@cindyspassions (510)
• Lampe, Missouri
29 Jan 07
good question for sure. i think that the reason we don't ever forget our first love is simply becuase it is our first love. the first time we felt that way the first time we cared that much. that is like your first car, your first date, your first kiss. any thing that is your first it is new and fresh never done or seen and that is a very speical thing.
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@kuntal41101 (366)
• India
29 Jan 07
This is something to do with human psychology !! We never forget the things that we have done for the first time... thats the point when we have started !! THE STARTING POINT let it be anything
@mansha (6298)
• India
30 Jan 07
I sometimes wonder that too. Do you think because thats what you actually wanted and then you grew up and became mature and your mind took over your heart. Wisdom took over your instincts. I feel my first love was really my soulmate but we were never meant to be. I love my hubby to but the "what if..." always lingers in my mind.
@techsam (158)
• India
30 Jan 07
You know what, it is not always necessary that we get to spend our life with the very person we love..... it may not be practical.... after all there are too many restrictions on us.. too many parameters impounding our thoughts on such matters.... but the sweetness of our love lingers on for the whole life..... and the only way we can keep it alive is to shower the person who comes into our life forever with the love..... just the way we would have done with the person we truly love/loved.....
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@kuntal41101 (366)
• India
10 Feb 07
i am in a serious confusion which one i put it as best response !!
@rush_nvr_say_die (45)
• India
31 Jan 07
I agree to you... There are very few people who are lucky enough to spend their life with the person who is their LOVE.....
Most of the other times, its the memories of your love (if u had one in ur life), or the want for the same (if u hv nvr met ur true love before) that keeps lingering in ur mind.... But these memories or wants are the sweetest part of ones life which u shud treasure.... those memories or wants will always bring a smile on ur face..... So never even try to forget it (U cannot though, even if u try.........)
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@oarnamav (2708)
• India
30 Jan 07
because we write with a permanent marker on to a White acrylic sheet.
the sheet being brittle if broken One can't forget this forever.
In your first love your heart is tender and plain, no cunning, not so smart.
In the Else case you are smart, little aware, with a little caution.
This awareness keeps you away from real love and it won't make a real impression in the heart.
First love is an accident and later one is a intentional behavior which is not a love to be precise.
Love can be met only once because it's an occurence and not the task or a deed.
The topic as such is beyond any explanation atleast through words.
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@techsam (158)
• India
30 Jan 07
First Love???
I mean what are you talking about here??
You don't keep falling in love do you?? If you do, then I beg to differ, its nothing but infatuation. But, to be honest there is a very thin line between infatuation and love, to realise it important as weel as difficult......
Now to answer your question, whatever be the scenario, do ever really forget the firsts of your life? I mean teh ones that happened after you were stable enough to remember things.
Say, the first time you sang on stage, or the first time you danced, or the first time you won a race or even participated, the first time you received a pat on your back from your parents for doing soemthing good, the first time you received your salary, the first time you went out on a date... oh! Life is full of firsts... dats what makes it so interesting.... You always remember your firsts!!
Tell me honestly, do you remember vividly what the lady was wearing, whom you took out on your first ever date??
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@kuntal41101 (366)
• India
30 Jan 07
if you don't remember whats that lady was wearing then it's your song not mine!! It's in the human behavior to remember all the first timer and if you don't then you are an exception !!
@karthik2rock (5)
• India
30 Jan 07
Why we never forget our first love is because there is no 2nd love,love is thrilling n exciting,U feel as if u r in a wonderland n this experience thrills n no one can forget any first such thrilling experience,a magic,a beauty....that is wat love is....there is no wonder y we dont forget our first love
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@sehgalskapil (1332)
• India
9 Feb 07
becoz it is bcoz of our first love only that we start loving everything that we use to disliked earlier..and that is the only one which makes us realize abt love.