would you forgive a cheating spouse?

Philippines
January 29, 2007 10:19am CST
how far would you go in forgiving your other half?
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11 responses
@anex84 (465)
• Bulgaria
30 Jan 07
It would take a lot of work and time to forgive a spouse that cheated. Marriage is sacred and a life time commitment .. I would rather my spouse tell me honestly if they wanted to be with someone else than to betray me.
@stonehr (818)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
31 Jan 07
I would forgive once but not twice for same mistake..So I believe second same mistake can't be happen...but if...it depends on many things would I forgive it...
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• United States
30 Jan 07
It would depend on the reason it happened. If you love your spouse enough, everyone is entitled to one mistake. Yes, I would once.
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@aksagi (413)
• India
30 Jan 07
Nature of the crime made by the partner is the area of concern n according to it punishment will be fianlised.
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• India
15 Feb 07
i never thought of that bcoz i trust on my other half bt if it happens somehow i'd be able to forgive her coz i love her.
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@mx_aman (2101)
• India
30 Jan 07
I do not forgive untill and unless she realised that she made a mistake..Well, it is a matter of trust..If once trust is breakdown then it takes too much time to buildup Or it never buildup..It will depends upon the human mentallity..
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@bronie123 (4587)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I guess it really depends on the situation like how many times with who and why people make mmistakes but I think i would have a very hard time trusting the person again. I hope my spouse never cheats on me i would rather him be honest to me than go cheat.
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@naiina (135)
• China
30 Jan 07
well it depends the extend of mistake if he say sorry n promise that i 'll not do it again then i ll forgive him n 'll give a chance..
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• Philippines
31 Jan 07
No,I don't forgive him.WE have to separate,its hurt to know a someone you love is treason.He needs advice to go in bible study.I don't love a person,he can't give a true love for me.After many years,I can forgive him.Be my friend not my husband.I hate people with bad attitudes,the husband and wife needs to love each other with honest and respect.
• India
30 Jan 07
it depends on the reason.maybe once or twice but not more than that
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• Philippines
31 Jan 07
I was never married but i had a serious relationship before which lasted for two years.did he cheat?yes and so many times already i forgot already how many times i have forgiven him.and now when i think of what happened.i shouldnt have forgiven him the first time..But it always depends on how grave the cheating was..and if you are ready to accept him and put the past behind.I never got over his cheating on me so i was always suspicious and never trusted him again.