If you were a King

i thnk no one wants to be feared , coz no one like it lol

I think that a king really doesn't earn respect either way. I think you have to reach a happy medium and be a bit feared and a bit loved. You can't be too much of either, and let people walk all over you. you have to let people know you won't take crap from anymore, but you also have to be kind and caring to a certain degree.