Stores Of Grandparents
By villageanne
@villageanne (8553)
United States
January 29, 2007 3:05pm CST
We lived in the country all my life. It was a mile in either direction to our nearest neighbor, which was my Grandparents. I learned at an early age just how important Grandparents are to a child. Grandparents have such knowledge that can help a child grow. I was close to my Grandparents on my Fathers side and to my Grandmother on my mothers side. My Grandfather on my Mom’s side died before I was born. He was only in his 30’s and left my Grandma to raise 11 kids by herself. He was a log truck driver. They don’t know if he fell asleep or had a heart attack but he was found days later over the hill in his truck dead. My Grandmother was an amazing woman. She had more strength, compassion and will power than anyone I knew. She was and is a survivor! She is in her 80’s and still drives “senior citizens” to their Dr’s appointments. In this area of West Virginia, the nearest Dr is an hour drive away from her. She has yet to realize that she has become one of those “senior citizens” I laugh every time she says “I have to take one of my seniors to the Dr tomorrow.”
I have fond memories of my Grandparents on my Father’s side also. That were still alive while I was growing up. I remember when we moved closer to them as they grew older. They had a large yard that I mowed each week. My Granddad would sit on the porch and watch me. He hated that he could no longer work outside. I would go down and cook for them after I got home from school a couple times a week. I come from a large family. Families have always been important to us. Each Sunday, we would all got to Granddad’s and Grandma’s to play horseshoes in the cow pasture. Granddad was a good horseshoe pitcher. Granddad loved to play dominoes. He always won. It was years before I figured out how he always won. He cheated! One time he showed me how he did it. I don’t know how he got by with it. I still grin when I play dominoes and think of my Granddad. My Grandparents used herbs and plants for medical purposed. Once I got poison Ivy in my eyes. My Grandma boiled a plant and applied it to my eyes. She knew what plants were good for what problem. I wish I had listened more and learned these lost techniques. My Grandma was known for her Apple Pies and Sugar Cookies. I don’t know how she did it but she always seemed to have some prepared. My Grandfather died and My Grandma was not long after him. The Dr said she died of a broken heart because there was no medical reason for her to die. That is true love that only can be found in a close family.
I miss my Grandparents but am thankful for the time that I had with them. I am thankful for the memories and the lessons they taught me in a loving family way. I hope in some small way, that I can pass those traits onto my Grandchildren. Do you remember your Grandparents? Are they still alive? Do you have stories preserved that your Grandparents told? Do you know any of your genealogy
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@kitchenwitchoftupper (2290)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Thank you for sharing your story and memories. I hope you have this preserved for your children as well. And yes, my grandmother on my mother's side is one of my best heroes. Like yours, she had many "home-made remedies". She was a mid-wife, a wonderful cook and baker, a true grandmother (the kind you used to see in picture books - with her hair tied up in a loose bun and a full apron on, and always flour somewhere on her chin, cheek, or forehead). She didn't have much formal education but was one of the wisest women I have ever had the honor to have known. Thank you for reminding me to think of her today. ~Donna
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@villageanne (8553)
• United States
29 Jan 07
My Grandma kept her hair in a bun on top her head also. She had never had her hair cut in her life. She always wore a dress and apron. Memories are a wonderful thing when they are good, aren't they?
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@lifeiseasy (2292)
• United States
29 Jan 07
I think you are wasting your talents here my dear friend ..that was an awesome story about your grandparents adnI am sure you have put a smile on their face up there ... I am in tears...I shared your life as a child just then through your story ...I can feel the love you felt and I can feel the love they felt for you ....I prefer to not share mty story right now as your is much more important right now ...I will share mine with you some other time...Thank you ...
@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
29 Jan 07
How wonderful that you have such treasured memories, and such a great example to build on for your own life. You have a great treasure!
I never knew my grandparents. I am sure my mother loved me in her own way but was unable to show it because she had never been loved herself. My father and two step fathers abused me. I'm sure she knew about it, but didn't know what to do.
You have a very deep treasure and a great example, which I am sure you are using in your own life. I have five grandchildren and would love the opportunity to spend more time with them. We are on good terms and share beautifully when we are together, but distance is a big problem. I am so thankful for the telephone!
Thanks for sharing your memories.
@howiedy (236)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
I miss my grandparents on my mother's side because we did not have the chance to have enough time together since they passed away. I am sure they are already happy in heaven. I just hoped that we could have shared more time together. I remember my grandmother used to tell us stories about legends and spoils us with candies. Those were the old days.
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@Kaldonya (277)
• United States
30 Jan 07
What a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing a part of your heart, a part of your family. I too was fortunate to know my grandparents. My mom's parents lived in town with us, so I knew them quite well and spent much time with them. My dad's parents lived in CA (I was in Iowa), and so I only saw them once a year or once every other year. Even with the limited visits with them, my memories are as vivid as with the ones I saw all the time. A favorite memory from my dad's mom is that whenever she came into town, she would always make jars and jars of homemade jam and homemade bread for us to eat. I used to love coming home from school, smelling the fresh bread and knowing that there would be some yummy jam to go along with it!
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@villageanne (8553)
• United States
22 Feb 07
It is so sad when Grandparents do not get to spend quality time with their grandchildren. Maybe your daughter in law will realize what an asset you are before it is too late.
@ash6666 (819)
• India
30 Jan 07
OH DEAR,YOU HAD A WONDERFUL CHILDHOOD WHICH HAS A LOT OF SWEETMEMORIES.As you said,Grandparents are one of the biggest assets a growing child can have.As they have been threw throught all the situaions of life,at that age they will be looking only to give love or to take love.
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I never knew my grandparents, and missed out on all that you shared in your story. All my friends talked about their grandparents, and I always wanted them. I think that you will pass those traits onto your grandkids, because it mean a lot to you. I have no genealogy either that I know of.
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@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
30 Jan 07
My great-grandmother always had soft molasses cookies on hand. They were wonderful. I remember playing outside in the cow pastures. I really don't remember much about her other than her cookies and her frilly apron that she wore.
My grandmother was wonderful. She took us in when we needed a home. She cooked wonderful meals. I loved her chicken, biscuits and gravy. She taught me to make pork chop gravy, although it took me several times.
My mother is now doing a lot of work on gather.com and it has been delightful to read about her childhood. I hope to get brave enough to write for my children and grandkids too. It would be lovely to share the past with them so they know where they came from.
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Grandparents are indeed a value asset to our lives. The information that they carry is awesome and the memories to be made are vital. Mine are gone now, they went while I was young. I come from an old family and we were close up til we begain to die off. The newest generation is wide spread and contact limited. However, my parents are still alive and we see them every chance we get. I did a family tree a while back. We had a housefire and I think that it is gone. Will have to try to do another one soon. Hope enough are alive to gather the information from. I keep the old ways alive and do the herbal works, work hard for honest work and teach my children well. Thanks for sharing yours, a snapshot into your life which I appreciate.
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@cockadoodledoo (337)
• Australia
30 Jan 07
I loved the time that I got to spend with my grandparents and miss them dearly:( I only knew the ones on my mothers side because my fathers parents had already passed away. My nana passed away 12 years ago and my grandpa, 12 months ago. My 12 yo son sadly lost all 3 of his remaining GREAT grandparents within 5 weeks of each other last year. It was very hard for him to understand why they all had to go within weeks of each other. On a happier note, my daughter (stillborn) was born on my grandpa's birthday and my 7yo son was born on my nana's birthday. Maybe this happened so that I would never forget my grandparents, and also so that my children would remember the dates their great grandparents were born.
@hakthar (3)
• India
30 Jan 07
I like very much my grandparents from my mother side.Both like me very much too.My nana teaches me much in my younger days .He is like my teacher.Still today when ever i met him he teaches me about god about truth.I like him much.He is my idol.My nani too loves me much.I like the food cooked by her.They are very delicious.I am their first grandson so naturally i got much love from them.Grandparents from my father side i don't remember much.My dada and i have interacted very less.
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@sakoch (14)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Wow, what a great story! Similiar to you, I was very close to my father's parents ~ they actually raised me. Oh, how thankful I am today of what they taught me and how much I find myself doing and saying things that they did. My grandparents were a bit oldfashion, but man, I am so thankful. They never aloud me to watch television except sports and the news and I couldn't be more thankful today. They always told me that there is so much more to do and see. As we all know, there is a lot of debate about children watching too much television in todays world. I love to read and be outdoors...thanks to their upbringings!!
Even though they aren't here with me today, there is so much of my every day life, personality, beliefs, and morals that is a reflection of my grandparents.
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Thanks for sharing the wonderful memories of your Grandparents with us. You are so right, we have to be thankful for the time we had with them.
I remember both of my Grandmothers, but both of my Grandfathers had passed away before I was born, so I never knew the pleasure of getting to know them. All of my Grandparents are gone now. My one Grandmother lived on one side of our 2 family home, when my parents (farmers) worked in the barns and out in the fields, she looked after me. She was warmth and strength, and taught me so many things.
I have also preserved stories of her for the family and later generations. I think things like that are important to pass along. I've done my Father's family tree, and am part way done with my Mother's tree. Genealogy has been a passion of mine the past few years. I've traced my Dad's back to the mid 1800's when his side of the family first emigrated to America. I haven't been able to go much further on his because they changed the spelling of our last name by a few letters, and it's getting harder to track down. Thanks for a refreshing pause in my day...remembering my Grandmothers!
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