How old Should A child be before they stay home alone?

United States
January 29, 2007 6:41pm CST
My son is 12 and many of his friends stay home alone already. My son if very mature and I beleive he can handle the responsibility but am concerned about where the law stands on this matter. I am unsure if there is a specific age or not that is considered appropriate. Any suggestions?
2 responses
• United States
30 Jan 07
I don't know what state you're in but I don't believe there are any specific laws regarding an age when a child can first be left home alone, within reason. At his age you most certainly can leave your son home alone, with a big HOWEVER. It's his first time. Make sure he's fine with it. Don't be gone too long the first few times. Make sure he knows what he's allowed and not allowed to do. Make sure he has good contact information, for several reasons. He may be lonely. He may get scared. And God forbid if there's an emergency. Make sure he's got numbers for other adults in the house, neighbors you trust, relatives and of course emergency numbers. if he's mature like you say, he'll be fine. Probably play video games, watch tv or listen to music the whole time. And never know you're missing. Good luck.
• United States
30 Jan 07
lol yeah your probably right video games and chatting on his cell phone he will probably never miss me :-( (kids grow up to fast) Thanks for the comment Tory
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
30 Jan 07
my kids are 10 and 7. they stay home sometimes by theirselves but its only for me to take hubby to work on the weekends and its early and cold but im never gone long and my moms next door