Arrange marriage or Love marriage ???

Since there is not much debate going on, I thought I will try to put some thoughts. I go for arrange marriage. There are lot of reasons behind it which I’m sure most of you guys/girls would agree. Some basic fats are, if you go for arrange marriage you will get elders vote/blessings by default. This makes it easy to handle difficult situations in future. In case of arrange marriage, there will be lot of people from both the side who will think logically and emotionally (including you) to decide whether it will workout or not. Hence the success ratio automatically increases. Most important fact – If you don’t like the girl/buy, you can say ‘No’. Also, the concept of arrange marriage would have been decided by many people after considering both positives and negatives. I think we should respect that. Now, let’s see what we mean by love marriage. You like a person and you fall in love. 90% of the time, external beauty will influence your decision on falling in love. And I don’t know why this can’t happen in arrange marriage. Because, if you are not attracted towards other person’s appearances – you would anyway say No. For other 10% people, it will not make any difference either way. Because other facts of a person can be known irrespective of love/arrange marriage. One advantage of love marriage is, if you don’t like the other person after sometime (before marriage ), you can break-up and move forward. But, this will put lot of damage in both the people’s life including their family people. Lastly, Don’t forget – arrange marriage is out culture. If you have a choice, you should support our culture and not others.

Mariages are arranged in heaven....! So it depends how one gets maried...! Everywhere faithfulness and affection plays an important role to make mariage successful or failure...!