what to do if partner is not communicative enough ?

have you tried to ask her what the problem is? or what is she thinking? this is also my problem cause sometimes i really wanna let her know what i am going through and what are my problems but she never ask. yes sometimes she ask but in a wrong timing or maybe in a wrong way of asking. i think you need to find a right time right mood to ask her and her feel that whatever it is your always there to listen and understand and of course to help. as far as i understand you are the first person should know what the problem is because you are the partener.

Youcan not read a person's mind. My hubby is also like that not very forth coming. I used to keep asking him all the time, but he got irritated with it. So know I just leave him to it after asking once and just wait out till he comes up and tells me on his accord. You can probably ask if something is bothering her and tell her you are there to listen if she needs you. and just leave her to it. Whenever she will be ready she will come back to you, then leave whatever you are doing and pay attention. women generally do not need solutions, unless they specifically asdk for it by saying, what should I do. Women genrally jsut want a sympathetic shoulder and a good listener to rant of whatever is troubling them. So just listen to her and do not judge her or start off you cnan do so or you cna do that. Just say oh, okay You understand and thats enough.

its hard to open up with pepople who do not want to talk with you, or do not simply want to open up.. in this case, the burden that is inside her will remain in there and trouble her from time to time.. but once she has poured it out, it will be easier.. maybe, the best way that i know as to now, to let her trust you, and be a good listener to her if she'll ever talk to you..