do u get enough freedom in ur life

Alot of the time, I feel like I don't have enough freedom. I had my first child a 20 so I pretty much cut my social life right there. I do love my kids but I feel like I could use some "me" time and I don't really get too much of it. I can't even enjoy a crap without my husband coming through the door for something! I'm trying to start a business but he makes me feel like I should be cleaning, cooking, whatever else! So yes, I could use some freedom!!