talkative people....do u like them??
By oleinoleo
@oleinoleo (389)
Malaysia
January 30, 2007 2:56am CST
hye, i am the one hwo r very talkative people among people around me. i like make people laugh and smile when i am saying something. and i also like talking with my friend, share some stories.. but lately, I found that no one likes what i am doing... some people hetes people like me. so, i made decission to stop and just talk an important part only. but, its is very hard for me to controll ans stop all this. but sometimes i didnt care about what people say and what they think.
7 responses
@ashumit02 (818)
• United States
31 Jan 07
The matter of interest about talkative people may be varies from person to person.I have some interest on them very much some of them are:-
1.I think that if the person is talking about some of the topic of my interest then i like to hear them as i think that this can make me to think more.Actually i too like to think and talk on topic continuosly.
2.I have develop a formula that is also concerning with that.The formula is "TOT".will you guess what is it.Actually it is short code of Talk On Topics.In this formula a person need to talk for atlease ten minute on any selected topic.
3.Talking on topics is also beneficial to develop the brains abaility to think.This is the way by which our brain learns.So i think so.
4.And the last one i want to discuss is the necessity to learn from topics.that is what are the extent our brains learns from talking.I think 29 percent of response is increases if we continue to talk on any topic.So you can also test my logic.Just talk ten minutes about window XP.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 07
erm.. thanks for the great opinion. All this make my mind be more open..
@joygermino (466)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
it is okay to be talkative as long as it does not irritate the conversation. there are talkative people who are talking with sense. i hate those who talks nonsense.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
14 Feb 07
yeah just talks on the related or important thing... and i tried to control and becarefull in every words i say...well, thanks for your comment!
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 07
yes correct! talkative people also can be a good listener. but have to make sure dont share people story with everyone. it can show that talkative people are busybody..
@cute_devil (100)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 07
jsut be yoursel don't ever think what people say about you.... i like talk active people like you and people who hates you are not really your frens... but sometimes you have to see the situation who you were with if wanna tell something funny or jokes, if you are with your best and close friend just do it but don't do that with a stranger....
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 07
thanks for dropping here! well, thats what i always do... i dont talk as usual when with stranger... just with my close friends and family.. Mostly they like what i am showing them at the first time meet.
@oleinoleo (389)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 07
thanks for dropping comment here! Everybody have plan and beware of every words that they gonna used. yes i have an experience when hanging with my friends. but my close friend can stand and almost understand me.
