big family is better or small?
By sungat
@sungat (1015)
Pakistan
4 responses
@sensesfail (2251)
• India
30 Jan 07
A small family is definitely better than a big family.In that way you need not stick up to everyone's problems and moreover the house becomes noisier.
@iamdeejhay (53)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
i come from a big family and there are advantages and disadvantages in having one. when you have a big family it so much fun and there are always a lot of things to do, new babies, weddings, birthdays to attend to and when you have problems, there a lot of people who will be there for you. the downside to having a big family though is that if you do something wrong, expect that there'll be a lot of people to scold you. and one of the problems of having a big family ( i just realized this) is that it's expensive to get married when you have a big family since there will be more people to invite! like in my case, my dad has 9 siblings and my mom has 9 siblings as well and all of them are married with an average of 3 kids per family! i'm even actually losing count of all of them but the last time i knew, we were already 40 plus in my dad's side and 50 plus on my mom's side. but i am really glad to have a big family - so many people to love and so many people to love me back. i feel like i was never alone because they are always there for me.
@shivprasad (176)
• India
30 Jan 07
hi friend,
What i think is having a big family in case of a non nuclear family is a real amazing factor of india, may be that could be reason i like it.
Though problems in joint families aries in sequence end up with diversion in family matters, but though these are the best, because living with people makes you clearly creating joy. But it may seem to go in reverse of this but its life so anything has to be accepted as we cant ignore or neglect it.
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
I think having small family is better than big family since there is less conflict happens between household.The more bigger,the more problems will appear rite?Having ill hearted to someone that we keep inside our heart that will lead to hatred feelings forever.