should i tel her????

@sajjan (133)
India
January 30, 2007 8:12am CST
hi,i am in love with a girl who was with me in college. we hav graduated now and are both working, she got engaged few days back....but now i hav accepted that she culd never be mine ..do u think i shuld tel her what i felt for her??????
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6 responses
@alokmis (224)
• India
4 Feb 07
For what you e waiting.
@sajjan (133)
• India
4 Feb 07
dont know,scared
@aksagi (413)
• India
30 Jan 07
Wait for some more years..... What is the problem.... have a talk if she is interested in you nothing is lost till her marriage after that u can't expect to get her.... go n dun waste time for opinions....Just run.
@sajjan (133)
• India
30 Jan 07
may be
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
for me its not necessary to tell her. what for if you know the fact that she is already engaged. You will just make her aloof with you. You said you have already accepted it so its no used on telling it, you can kept it and forget about it and move on.
@sajjan (133)
• India
30 Jan 07
hey thanks
@swasti (1157)
• India
30 Jan 07
no..plzz dont. well she must now be dreaming about the new life she is going to move into. well if u go and tell her ,probably she may or may not feel soo disturbed by wat u say. but it is better not to tell her now as it is of no use. keep it within urself , that will be the best thing u r doing for her.atleast when she meets u in future she may face u with a freindly heart and enthusiasm as a friend.
@sajjan (133)
• India
30 Jan 07
hey thnks for answering,but she considered me as a good frend .so it wuld be fair enough that i tel her the truth???
• Philippines
30 Jan 07
What's the use of telling her? What is your motive? Personally, I advise you to not confess anymore. When you were in college, you had all the time in the world to tell her how you feel. Now, it's too late.
• United States
30 Jan 07
Sajjan: I think it would be best if you don't tell her and move on. I really think it is sweet that you were her secret admirer as a friend - sounds like a movie - but she has gotten engaged and I think that you should have told her before now. If you really love her and know that she is happy with her fiance' then I wouldn't tell her. She thinks you are a really good friend and although this is not a movie it would be nice for her to break off the engagement and run into your arms - but that is most likely not going to happen and you could possilby mess up a really good friendship and be left with nothing.