Risk loosing her, or not?

I would say no if was asked by my hubby. You could ask her but you going to not like her if she says no or pressure her or go behind her back and have it with two other girls? Ask her the worse she can say is no. You willing to have a treesome with her and another guy if she wants it?

Straight I guess. Fantasies are just that. Fantasies. They need not neccessarily translate into real life. It is a rare person who is so practical, pragmatic and unimaginative that s/he has not had a fantasy. So, if I were you and wanted to share my fantasy with my partner, I would be upfront about it and say it. But of course if you know she is a jealous and possessive person, who will only get inflamed by anger rather than lust better lose that fantasy of yours real quick, that is if you want to keep her. It all depends on your assessment of your partner's sense of imagination.

as long as your partner is a girl friend , u can ask easily about this since there is no harm in asking . no need to put difficult ways , simply directly u can ask . but it is to be decided this is a needy one or not . hope u might hav understaood wht i tell

Try sugesting it as a joke and see how she takes it, she may fantasize about it too. You wuold be suprosed how many women have that fantasy, or tell her you want to watch then join when the time is right.

First if you love her, why do you want to have a threesome with a second girl? I just ask because my girlfriend would be very mad at me if I would say that I would like to have one. Second if you want you should first ask her carefully like this: "what would you think about a threesome?" If she say's already there "Nothing" or something like no forget it. If she don't say 'no' try to find out which type of threesome she would do (2 male & female or 2 female + male) I hope this helps.

My husband first approach with some XXX movies and then we started to talk about it as if someone was actually in the room with us... and then he asked me if I would like to have another man joining us... and then one thing led to another and we started to talk about having another woman and then it finally happen my husband was on cloud nine for weeks... the next day I decided to go to the Adult store and I bought a strap on... now my husband and I love having another woman joining us... it's alot better and it creates alot of spice in the relationship... you guys are missing out on something good!!! Good luck

Why you are worried if your GF is open minded then just try it out. But be careful next time same thing happen in your GF case then you should ready to accept it.

I would just mention it to her and see how she responds. I've been asking my husband for a threesome for yrs now (with another girl) and just last night he finally agreed. I haven't pushed it, but he's always known that it's something I've wanted. If she says no, don't push just let it go, she'll think about it and may decide that it would be fun.

I guess it would all depend on just how opened minded the other person is! Some woman will agree to this as it does in fact spice up ones love life. It is however hard to say exactly how each individual would react to this!

I'd just casually bring it up, ask her if she's ever thought about it. I wouldn't bring it up right away because that may chase her off and make her weary of your relationship. If she says no, then don't push it, if you love her you'll just have to respect her wishes.

I'm not saying your fantasy is wrong or bad, but would like to add something. Once this act has been completed, then your fantasy is gone. There is nothing left to dream about or fantasize about. And the bad part about it, is that it is never as good as you have imagined it to be in your head.

This is a good question... what is good for the goose is good for the gander however what if she says no she would not be comfortable with another girl but she would like to try with another guy? Would you go ahead with another guy knowing she is not comfortable with another girl? If so would you be able to not preasure her to be with a girl after being with another guy? I have to tell you that I agree with jimbo you have to be 100% secure with your relationship to go forward with this how will you take it if wheather it is a man or girl she really enjoys it and gets into it, will you take offence ? these are serious questions and an easy way to ruine a realationship... I have been married for 12yrs. and we have had another man a few times however we set guidelines as no kissing there is no touching with the guys it is more for my pleasure as well as my hubbys enjoys watching but I am not comfortable with another girl...

I have a very open relationship with my boyfriend and we talked about having a threesome with another girl. It is his fantasy and somehow I want to fulfill it. I don't want to do it with any stranger, I prefer choosing the girl for us, lol. I am bi and it's doesn't bother me. I just don't like it when my boyfriend seems to be so eager to do it. I mean...I'm still here! Don't push your fantasy too much. Try to talked to your girlfriend about fantasies and open yours to her. Maybe she have fantasies too that you can fulfill. If you think she's open-minded enough then she'll understand you. You are both adults and mature anyway. Goodluck!