My relationship

I agree, I think counseling would be of great benefit to you. Judging by your past relationships you have not always put yourself first. The fact that you are asking for help in this relationship and that you are expecting to be happy and appreciated is a very good thing. Something to remember, you do not have to be in a relationship to be happy and fulfilled. If your relationship is taking away from your happiness, then it is probably not a good one.

well then you seriously need to consider ur relations before becoming serious about them

You are very positive to win the situation. Just wait for your turn. God will set things right for you. Already you have choosen to win every time. So you're on the card for getting right now from God. Take care.

the relationship is over once you starts to have doubts.. there is no point in continuing.. better now than never

i think you need to think about your past relationship where you were put through verbal and pysical abuse then think of the relationship you are in now and see if there are things in common with both then you need to decide if that is what you want with your life

Like many of the responses above, I'd say go see a counsellor. Because I think your previous regrettably abusive relationships have already tainted and distorted on your views of what constitutes a relationship. Trust and love. Please, leave your boyfriend as fast as you can if you feel that, after a long probing session, things will not turn around for the better. Don't let yourself stay in that state of misery..I think you deserve better and you should too~ All the best..

the relationship is over once you starts to have doubts.. there is no point in continuing.. better now than never

the relationship is over once you starts to have doubts.. there is no point in continuing.. better now than never

You really shouldn't be there, if stuff like that is going on. Just get out. That relationship is no where near healthy if he is abusing you, especially physically. You really need to get out of it before you get really hurt, or die...

i guess you're not yet fully healed from your past hurts thus making you not ready for another relationship. you may need some time to find inner peace and forgiveness, both for your past lovers and yourself. no one can ever make you happy if you have unresolved issues deep within. i am not in any way an expert on ways to 'recover' but i've been there and i've overcome. you may start by being by yourself for awhile, free from any relationship, free from its demands and complications. this way you will be able to sort your feelings and get reconciled with inner self. then you'd be ready for the next, hopefully the right one.

Ask yourself why you expect different results when you continue to do the same thing. YOU are chosing your partner. YOU need to find out why you are making the choices that you are. Sometimes we need outside help. It is difficult to be objective about the most subjective situations of our life.

The whole point of dating prior to marriage is to get to know people and find out if this is the kind of person you want to spend your life with. If you're having doubts now, get out and look elsewhere.

If you are unhappy think hard about getting out, it sounds like you have had a hard road when it comes to relationships and deserve to find someone to appreciates you. If you stay with them and it isnt to be you are just prolonging it and it will probably get worse. Hope everything gets better for you

I think it would help you greatly to educate yourself on what makes a relationship work. You might want to go to a consulor. Some people think they don't really help but they do!!

People always find happiness, and if you don't think you're not happy anymore, why keep on hanging around? Be true to yourself and to the person involved. That way, you'll end up as friends with no hurt feelings.

I dont know how to do this yet!