does ur husband comfort u with soothing words when u cry?
By swasti
@swasti (1157)
India
January 30, 2007 11:34pm CST
well my husband and i r very opposite. iam very emotional and he isnt even a bit.i cry for many things and whenever i feel emotional . the first time i cried after our marriage , he really got srprised and he really talked to me and conforted me. then next time tries consoling and now he hardly bothers me. probably he reslised that all women are like that .but sometimes i wish he bothered atleast a bit when i cry.anyway , it is his bature and this is mine...how about couples out there....does ur husband soothe u everytime u cry?
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@CatEyes (2448)
• United States
31 Jan 07
NO. Mine hates it and made it very clear he thinks it's a way for women to use men. Hmmm. sound like someone burned him huh. I was at a very detrimental point in my life when he told me this, and it had profound effect one me. I no longer cry in front of him, I cry in private where no one can see. My mother did not like me crying eiter, but she used people with hers to make them feel guilty and could cry at the drop of a dime if she wanted to. Maybe thats why my husband does not like me crying? Who knows.
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