the scariest point in a relationship

@babyjane (1390)
Philippines
January 31, 2007 2:24am CST
Getting married or break up?
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7 responses
bicklelady
@bicklelady (1404)
• United States
8 Feb 07
In my case, getting married is scary,exciting,amotional,and more. Breaking up to me is just scary. There are usually bad feelings. You have to get what is yours and give him his. you almost have to start a new life.
babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
Getting married is really emotional. You could experienced all the emotions the day before and after the wedding (my mom told me). To others, breaking up also scared them 'coz maybe they haven't got hurt or maybe they are happy in their present relationships.
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babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
I agree with you. If we love, we have to assume that he is really your destiny, right? When goodbyes comes, it's hard for us to start a new life 'coz we have given out the best of everything but still it's not worth it.
bicklelady
@bicklelady (1404)
• United States
8 Feb 07
yea, getting married, if you are planning a wedding you can get over whalmed and happy and cry all the same time. If you break up you think, I have just waisted so and so amount of time on this person.
jessalou
@jessalou (69)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
i think both are scary.it depends on the person which is more scary. breaking becomes scary when you think that it will be very difficult for you to let go of the person. getting married can be scary if you are not sure that you are emotionally, mentally, and financially stable enough to enter into a long-term committment.
babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
It really depends to the person on how he handles certain situations. If he is serious about relationship then it comes only to a break up then he/she might be having difficulties starting a new life. In marriage, if you're not ready it might scare you too. It depends to the person on how he/she deals with it.
wmg2006
@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
8 Feb 07
Marriage is the scariest I think if you are seious about marriage. Breaking up is hard but can be mended. Marriage is forever and has lots of trials and tribulations. You can't just walk away from it like you can when you are dating and want to break up.
babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
I agree with you. Marriage is not as easy as others think it could be. Breaking up is scared too, too think that we can't find somebody that could mend our heart but in marriage, it's a sacred idea that you cannot just easily decide. Time could heal a broken heart.
Aeihjei02
@Aeihjei02 (44)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
for me break up.. It's too hard and too painful
babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
It's your choice. Breaking up is really hard and all of us experienced it. Time could heal the pain.
Geoas
@ashjoe76 (1422)
• India
5 Feb 07
I guess that would be getting married, rather than breaking up. Many things await you, which you can never guess. You are signing a pact where you are comminting yourself to a life with the other person....Oh, it's really scary, am scared already at the thought of it.
babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
I agree with you. In breaking up, u could still find somebody to heal the pain, right? In marriage, you are obliged to take care of your responsibilities as well as your family.
dennymania
@dennymania (124)
• Italy
8 Feb 07
break up
babyjane
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
Thanks for the response.
TerryZ
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
8 Feb 07
I think it would have to be the break up because you dont know were your going or what your going to do. And its also a feeling of sadness to. Breaking up is hard to do