Would you stay with your adoptive parents or find your real ones?
By angelusiride
@angelusiride (13)
Philippines
January 31, 2007 3:17am CST
I know someone who recently discovered that she is adopted. It was a crude moment when she did. She was in the middle of a brutal argument with her mom when suddenly her mom bursted out that she was just adopted anyway and that she lucky they provided for her the way they did. Ever since, she wanted to look for her real parents. Thing is, if she does find them, do you think she should stay with them? After all, they sort of gave her away right? Or should she stay with her adoptive parents who until recently do not show compassion for her anymore.
3 responses
@babyreyn (934)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
if i am in her case, I probably want to find my biological parents not to stay with them but just to know them. I want to stay with my adoptive parents because with them, I feel how to live well and be love and have family. Maybe I will thank my biological parents for choosing my adoptive parents to take good care of me.
@Caila611 (992)
• United States
27 Feb 07
findg her real parents may not be all roses and fairy tales. They may want to stay hidden. So if they want her back it has to be on there terms. not hers. I'm an adoptee searching for my birth family. If she does start the search i hope she is of legal age.
