Is it that really possible to fall inlove with your bestfriend?
By ChuckGel
@ChuckGel (244)
Philippines
January 31, 2007 3:22am CST
I'm just quite confused of the fact that i usually encounter. It is that most of the long lasting relationship would usually comes from two people who were been bestfriends at the beginning. For you, have you already encountered a long lasting relationship that comes from being bestfriends...
19 responses
@cplpacesgirl (754)
• United States
1 Feb 07
Absolutely!! I fell in love with my best friend. We were actually best friends for 4 years before we finally admitted to having feelings for each other. And now we're getting married!! It's a truly beautiful thing. He is a US Marine and is stationed 1400 miles away. So all that time of waiting to tell each other taught me patience. It all works out in the grand design.
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@chrissymadam_simple (173)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yes, there can be a big possibility. Falling in love with your best friend is the most beautiful, yet the most painful of all...why?? It's not easy to tell him what you really feel. Maybe his feelings for you is just a sister,...and it hurts to hear that...I better not assume or expect that my best friend will fall in love with me...because maybe I am only misinterpreting his actions...
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@fujin1985 (684)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
It's possible. I'm currently in a relationship with my guy bestfriend, and we've been on for 4 years now. We're in a long distance relationship though, coz during our first year he flew to the states to migrate there. And 'til now we've endured the distance. Having friendship as a foundation for long lasting relationships is very vital for me, since from the beginning you earn the trust you'll need for your relationship.
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@joseph1364 (40)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
YES!!!because LOVE comes unexpectedly and maybe u r destined to be together.if u r inlove with ur bestfriend,don't hesitate to tell her or him for ur true feelings because you don't know when God will take his or her life!!!!
@wantaferrari (142)
• India
1 Feb 07
not really....but i do believe that being friends first is really a big step forward if u are to fall in love...coz u already know the person very well...
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
1 Feb 07
My gf and I have been dating for about three years now. We've been friends since our first year of middle school. Our friendship just grew over time, until I started feeling differently towards her, and her the same for me. So, we started dating. I think it was only a matter of time really.
@072006 (1276)
• India
1 Feb 07
Its very much possible, as being best friend, we know all the things about each others.All good and bad qualities, likes and dislikes. We know each others every things about past and present, and morever most imporatnt thing is we know how one will react one something comes to our best friend, so its makes fall in love with our best friend, as you get so used to thet person!!!
@vianney_girl16 (55)
• Philippines
2 Feb 07
i have red many stories of bestfriends falling in love to each other... maybe that's very possible... since friendship is the best foundation of this kind of relationship... right? coz bestfriends know each other very well... and there's nothing wrong in this kind of thing....as long as you never hurt anybody....
@npavan_2000 (140)
• India
1 Feb 07
Well good question but am not a girl. I would have fall in love with my girl friend
@oseasallenmarc (168)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
It is possible to fall inlove with your bestfriend. It is because your friend know you deeper,acknowledges your wants,and confides in you no matter what. You have learned to act as one when you are bestfriends. And I am sorry to disagree that it is hard to become friends again after becoming lovers and decided its over.
@frostygrrl (112)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
I have fallen once for a bestfriend and it ended in a great two year relationship. I currently have a best friend that I'm not that into and its hard for me to be friends sometimes because I dont know where the line is drawn.
@wesker311 (508)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yes it is possible to fall in love with your bestfriend. my very first love is with my bestfriend since high school and we had a relationship for 2 years! but when you seperated it's hard to be friends again
@yvonitz_marian (117)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
yes, but its reaaly hard to fall for there is a possibility or instances that it will create misunderstandings,,,it's really hard..
@piyush0425 (53)
• India
31 Jan 07
hmm yeah u can say dat u can fell in love wid da person wgho is ur bst frn..bt in ma opinion its not...i don think so frndshp can be converted into love....its jst an infatuation..cause u keep on thinkin bout dat person ...so if u hav fallen in love wid ur bdy den do chk it on urslf..dat is it a love or jst an infatuation...
@raj_neo07 (151)
• India
1 Feb 07
Ye sthere are possiblities and that happened to me too. And that relationship is still going smoothly and the best way to fall in live is to fall in love iwth your best friend.