cheating
By blondetruly
@blondetruly (826)
United States
23 responses
@ilse72 (1450)
• United States
10 Oct 06
If you confront him, he will probably deny it. The best approach might be to just ask. By catching him off guard, he might blurt it out. Don't count on it though. The best thing to do, if you can afford it, is hire a private detective to follow him and get the goods on him. It would be hard for him to deny it when confronted with photos!
@blondetruly (826)
• United States
10 Oct 06
thanks :) Its just a question ...not that its happening to me.
@sassybritches72 (494)
• United States
10 Oct 06
I would wait to confront them until I had more evidence to support my thoughts, otherwise they just might start being more careful so as though not to get caught, that and I would want to be sure so I didnt falsely accuse them of cheating.
@fellowlife (988)
• Nigeria
10 Oct 06
well confrontations could let him have an advantage of denial once you dont have the evidence to nail him down.I know how it feels seen someone you trust cheat on you."You would definately want to nail him down, expect him to accept his mistakes and promise he would never do that again". To be candid you would be wrong if you take that approach.Find some more evidence, lay it bare to him when he's relaxed and see what he does...
Good luck
@chekkan_b (5)
• India
10 Oct 06
I would go for collecting more evidence..and then confront him.....But would i be still be able to trust another person?I mean guess it wud always be in our mind right?
@acdc0805 (979)
• United States
10 Oct 06
its always good to just ask. Honesty is the best policy. I always give me husband three chances, to come clean...if i have any evidence, and if he doesn't than I confront him. But i always tell him, i'd rather have you tell me whats going on, rather than someone else. Whenever i confront him i tend to be really pissed, and get stressed for no reason, so I'd just ask him if theres anything that you need to know about, if he says no-then confront him.
@coolme_kiran (992)
• India
10 Oct 06
the best way is to wait for more evidence.immediately confronting them is not good.if you have enough evidence you can always confront them later.
@mommydearest (877)
• United States
10 Oct 06
I would wait until there is more proof because if you confront them without any proof they will just deny it. Try a private investigator.
@rajishleo123 (106)
• India
10 Oct 06
I beleive in waiting till i get complete evidence..before u blame someone..
@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
10 Oct 06
I would wait until I had solid proof. But don't just look for proof in everything they say or do, just be aware of what is going on around you. When you have something fairly solid, bring it up.