feelin unwanted makes u depressed.....or u feel no one loves u....??
By Mazna123
@Mazna123 (65)
India
January 31, 2007 5:53am CST
whn a person does not love u the way u want does not mean tht person does nt love u.,.....
many u feel tht no one wants u whn u dont get enough attention tht u requite.... many a times u do things at extreme to attract attention....
many times whn u get rejection or have been ditched u feel u r not good enough to b loved....
are these signs of depression....
does each n every person goes thru such phrase of life where u feel low or depressed u feel unwanted n u many feel no one cn ever love u......
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4 responses
@simplysue (631)
• United States
3 Feb 07
First, let me say that I understand exactly where you are coming from. Once upon a time I felt that way on a regular basis. It took many years for me to understand that before I could truly love someone else, I had to learn how to love myself. I had to learn how to be happy on my own....not count on someone else to make me happy.
When a person doesn't love you the way you want them to, it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you or that you are unlovable. It simply means that that person is not "the one". If it's necessary to do extreme things to attract this persons attention....that person is not "the one". Please try to look at failed relationships not as being rejected or ditched but as an opportunity for the love of your life to come along.
I think that everyone goes through these feelings of being unwanted and unloved at some point of life. This very well may lead to depression. Please remember always that some day you will find that special someone who will love you forever. Hugs and hang in there. One last thought...you are entitled to feel down now and then, however, you are worthy of love and some day when you least expect it, love will find it's way into your life.
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@mistyice (6)
• United States
3 Feb 07
I can relate to this..because I am going thru this at this moment...my husband tells me that he is very much in love with me...but I don't feel this...due to the fact he doesn't want to live in the same house as me..he rather live alone and do whatever it is that he does. He only wants me to come around on the weekends. All I do is cry and wonder why...I feel like it is something I have done, then he just tells me that I have not been the same since the car awreck. Then he tells me that it is the Bi-Polar that he can't deal with. He is always telling me that I will never be good at anything. This week on the 7th we will be married for 10 years..but I am starting to feel like I am not worth the effect of him being in my life like he should be.
@Mazna123 (65)
• India
3 Feb 07
if someone loves u thn he will never let u go...livin in diffrent houses...meetin only weekend tht unfair to u.... he cnt make decisions for both of u.... i understd it must b really depressing for u.... hve u tried to talk to him abt how u feel... u sud tell him how it kills u whn he behaves like tis... u deserve more than his cold behavior towards u....thr is nothg tht cannot b solved by communicating properly.... fill in the communication gap... talk to him...do thgs whc he use to like in u few yr b4... it is very easy to stray in marriage....difficult is to be one hold each others hand evn if times are tough...
and if the love is true the fire is thr till the last breath....!!!!
all the best i m prayin for u...!!!!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
24 Oct 10
Well, sometimes its unavoidable that we feel depressed for the day..but for the health its not a good side, i believe in Meditation which will balance our mind and helps to be normal at situations
