comparation in family
By creationid
@creationid (10)
Indonesia
January 31, 2007 7:01am CST
life as a children in a family with many childs some made some discussion like how parent treat us as their son / daughter.
many childs become hate or separate from their family or just one of their family member. sometimes it's becouse how parents treat them in different way.
maybe they (parent) didn't know that sometimes what they said slaps their children heart so deep.
just maybe saying like "Look at your brother,his do anything without we push it" or "See u'r sister, she got a better job, not just playing around"
maybe we as child like to do something without make them know, we think we can just sudenlly succes and make our parent proud.
that's why sometime a simple comparration in a family can hurt us deep.
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2 responses
@abednego7 (1060)
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Its unfair but its real and sometimes parents don't know they actually pushing their children away by doing this. They think its like an encouragement for some of their children to follow their sibling's good example. But the problem is the way they do it or the way they say it.
@creationid (10)
• Indonesia
2 Feb 07
it's true. but lately when my father read this discussion . He try to talk about this as father and son. I respect for my Dad . but after that in the morning, the conversation between me and my father become hard. dunno wether 4-5 days later but right now me and him like line some distance.
hope not long but soon it will be alright again.
and my brother like it either. now i'm confuse.
is comparation maybe must had in any family or not?
really that when comparation happend it force me to do better, but in otherhand... it's hurt a lot!!
