How do you tell your best friend that she has crushed you?
By happymomndad
@happymomndad (1035)
United States
January 31, 2007 7:53am CST
much and we dont do things together. I have a hard time being around her, I feel like she thinks she is perfect and never gets upset and I am just a B!^@# that cant hold her emotions. I have been trying to work up the guts to tell her how she made me feel but havent been able to. Do I let it go or do I say something ?
2 responses
@Sami_beau_ideal (158)
• India
1 Feb 07
If she is your best friend, talk to her or if you cant do that in a calm manner, go ahead and shout at her the things you have written in this post and she will listen to you and most probably discuss reasons for her behaviour eith you. DO THIS IN PRIVATE ONLY
But if she aint willing to listen to your feelings and you already are not comfortable with her, i am sorry to say but she just might not be your best friend anymore.
@Sami_beau_ideal (158)
• India
2 Feb 07
Sorry didnt read ur comment earlier. If she has been your friend for long do talk to her in clear terms and give her say a day to respond and sgain listen to what she has to say as she may have her reasons.
If things still dont work out then back off from her as a friend for some while, it might help her realize her folly and give you time to find interest in some other things and people.
@bestfriends (876)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
Hehhe you should tell your best friend that you have a crush on her maybe in a joke. If she react and liked it she probably like you too. But I know it could be hard on your part as well to be serious. If I were in your shoes, I will just tell here as a joke to see a reaction from her.
@happymomndad (1035)
• United States
1 Feb 07
When I say crushed I mean that she has seriously hurt my feelings.
