How do you tell if a woman's a lesbian?
By jitendar2003
@jitendar2003 (95)
India
16 responses
@vinaykiran28 (5149)
• India
25 Oct 06
its very difficult to say but if a woman shows no attraction towards men then i think she can be a lesbian
@jitendar2003 (95)
• India
13 Oct 06
Yeah... like there's an EASY thing to do...
"Hi, i'm Sam, you know what? Are you're a lesbian?" -- Is that how i'm supposed to ask her?
Geez... a guy just can't walk up to a girl and ask her if she's a lesbian - why do you think i'm starting a discussions requesting specifically for SIGNS of telling if she is a lesbian.
BTW: "Sam" is NOT my real name.
@classicaljazz (1628)
• United States
13 Oct 06
Asking for specific SIGNS to tell if someone is a lesbian is like asking for specific SIGNS to tell if someone's name is Sam. Everyone is different and entitles thoughts and opinions. You can't even be sure that she's a lesbian if you see her kissing another woman.
@researchscholar (2218)
• India
13 Oct 06
in my country there are no woman's lesbian. If there are also very rare
@jitendar2003 (95)
• India
11 Jun 07
True... in a country like India, everything happens behind closed doors.
You just don't know about em!
@dollar669 (569)
• Canada
25 Oct 06
as women we drop all kinds of hints, just listen to what she says, and her reactions to sexy women
@Backpack30 (924)
• United States
26 Oct 06
I don't either, but I do think there are some signs....
Not for every lesbian, of course, but I've noticed that the MAJORITY of the lebians that I have personally met have had a masculine "presence". Like tomboys.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
13 Oct 06
I can say that a woman is a tomboy, to the way she wears her clothing, the ways she speaks like no other, and to the ways she approaches a man with a fist or to another woman with a dance
@MrsFrizzle (1963)
• United States
25 Oct 06
When you see then making love to anothe women.. lol.. actualy I don't really know just joking but if you did seee then with another women that may be a sign.
@Poeticv27 (104)
• United States
25 Oct 06
It's very hard to tell these days. Women are good at hiding things, but sooner or later the truth comes out whether they make a statement, react to certain things, express their feelings towards something or someone, dress appearance or how they walk.
@Weasel_Sponge (1069)
• Canada
25 Oct 06
Short answer: if a woman sleeps with other women, and doesn't sleep with men, that's how you can tell.
@Angelina1984 (202)
• Italy
25 Oct 06
i see from her eyes...if she is looking to my back she is not straight:)
@Bugsey (775)
• United States
24 Oct 06
youcan't really tell unless you get "closer" to her and have the guts to ask her and risk either getting the answer or making her really mad at you.. she may likewise smack you which youwill deserve anyway because maybe it's none of your business if she is????
@acfoster (7)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I do not believe there any sure 'signs' of being a lesbian. Some women may have a more masculine appearance, but that is certainly not the case for all lesbians. The best way to find out without directly asking her is simply talk to her. Does she have a SO? What does she do in her free time? If she is not in the closet than she will probably let you know just in general conversation. For example, 'My wife and I . . . ' or 'My partner and I . . .'.
