to mentain friendship is tough,isnt it?

India
January 31, 2007 9:13am CST
iam an introverted person,so i have only few freinds. but iam finding it tough to mentain the friendship.why is it so.i need ur suggestion so that i can mentain friendship and also to know what u guys think about this matter.
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@tiibbaamm (613)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 07
all that i can say is always try to respect your friends..listen to what they have to say, but also give them positive feedback. i lost a friend who i knew from way back when we were in the 7th grade. last year, we had a miss understanding,from my point of view, i just can't take the way she treated me and all of her friends. therefore, i decided to let her go and not keep in touch anymore.. (for now). hope that you have more patience than i do.
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@Serjas (2328)
• India
31 Jan 07
thats a good sort of information.thanks buddy.i agree with you!"respect each other"...it really mean it!
@baronarthur (4187)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 07
I am introvert too. I really like to be alone with all my happiness and enjoyment. But, I must go out and speak to some people. It's difficult but I did it. How to maintain the friendship? Keep in touch with your friend, think of their own good and show the respect. Just be yourself and always want to be better in yourself.. But if you can't be. Just pray and God will change you..
@Serjas (2328)
• India
31 Jan 07
may be you are right....may be you are not....i have many friends and maintaining a friend ship is easy now ...thanks to technology ...thanks to internet for sites like orkut.com....it really help to maintain friendship between people live in different places and countries...thanks to mobile phone....so all you have to do is just talk or chat with them!and checkout my discussion for 21 tips tobe lovable!
• United States
31 Jan 07
True friends are hard to find. Best friends are rare. I do not think many people now a days know how to be a true friend. A true friend always has an ear for you to talk and cry to in happy or sad times. They let you know when you are wrong or right. They give you objective opinions. They do not judge you for your mistakes they just try to help you through them.