how can i express my love /

India
January 31, 2007 9:28am CST
guys i need ur help.iam an introvert person and a shy guy. ilike this girl who i want to meet daily but couldnt because now she is doing her mba in bangalore.for the last one year i been seeing her,no trying to see her.i will give her everything i got.but never had the guts even to talk to her.i think each time our eyes met i felt so good.i think liked me or i just want to believe that.please help me to get her.that will the most happiest day in my life
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@FreddyLim (161)
• Singapore
31 Jan 07
first you will have to gain confident of yourself. When with her or talking to her just be yourself do not be someone you think she will like. At the end of the day you want her to love you not someone you think she want you to be. So just be YOURSELF. Talk to her casually and from the conversation you two shared, learn about what she like or prefer. Ask her how's her day and be there when she's sad, let her vent her anger when she's angry. make her laugh when she is unhappy... there's so many ways to get to her... most importantly is be yourself but of course having said that, you can't say you be yourself and when you are with her just keep quiet. That would be the end. Just think of something and start talking. To begin with, maybe you can say something like, how's the weather around her, or today weather is good what do you think something like that and let the conversation unfold itself. Dun worry too much about the period of silence, just dun let it be too long...
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@Serjas (2328)
• India
31 Jan 07
whaoo my friend...thats a lot os tips....i think you are a expert in this love matter...anyway thanks for your very intelligent post.given a +.wanna friends?
@Serjas (2328)
• India
31 Jan 07
i dont know what is love! it's defenition defers from people to people.so i am here to give some tips rather than explain what is love?i read your discussion and i am sorry for you!but dont get upset.you can!here is some tips to be loved! i found it really working! 1). Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 2). Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. 3). Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. 4).! When you say, "I love you," mean it. 5). When you say, "I'm sorry," look the person in the eye. 6). Be engaged at least six months before you get married. 7). Believe in love at first! sight. 8). Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much. 9). Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely. 10).. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. 11). Don't judge people by their relatives. 12). Talk slowly but think quickly. 13). When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer,smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?" 14). Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 15). Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze. 16). When you lose, don't lose the lesson 17). Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions. 18). Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 19). When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 20). Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. 21). Spend some time alone.! hope this tips will help you as helped many of my friends.dont think i am the inventor.i read this in a magazine! cheerup my friend