Dilemma between TO STAY with own PARENTS or IN-LAWS?

If I were you, i'd pick the house that is nearer to my office. Then you'll be able to save some money there. Also, take into consideration of how many people lives in the house. You might want some privacy. Too many people would make the house more crowded and i don't think that's a good thing. On the excuses part, try to explain to them regarding what i've just write above, especially the financial part (nearer to the office, no toll, etc). They would understand. Ut's you marriage life anyway, right?

Which place is bigger? Has more room? And whoever you reject then be straight up with them, tell them "thank you but we already decided to stay at so and so's house". They'll understand... unless they are mentally unstable and cry at the thought of you staying at someone else's house, then maybe you should reconsider =) I hope this helps!!! But seriously don't fret!!