How To Deal With Two-timers?

@eunixia (387)
Philippines
January 31, 2007 11:18am CST
Hi buddies. Well, I need to understand why my girl does this to me. I can't marry her if I still don't trust her. 2 or 3 weeks ago was the last time she cheated on me with her ex! For the 9th time! He never learns. We always end the conversation by 'im sorry', 'i promise not to do it again' and 'ok I forgive u but promise not to cheat on me ever again'.. I'm gona be insane for real if she does it again. I love her, but she hurts my feelings. I can't take this anymore! What should I do? or maybe its about my face.
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5 responses
wrdsofwisdm
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
31 Jan 07
Honey, It's about time you kick her to the curb and don't look back. She has already proven she does not respect you and you do not deserve that kind of treatment.
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eunixia
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Sometimes I really believe that love is blind. Thanks for the comment. I'll do that.
sevnthjuly
@sevnthjuly (913)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
nothing more to say...kick her off your a... life! once is enough,twice is too much already to handle! but 9 times? you must be out of your mind!
eunixia
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Well you know, sometimes love just aint enough? Dont you think? :-)
eunixia
@eunixia (387)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
Well you know, sometimes love just aint enough? Dont you think? :-)
wrdsofwisdm
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
1 Feb 07
With real love comes respect, honesty and loyalty...so in this case she seems to be lacking it.
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@754937286506548667 (815)
• Italy
3 Feb 07
divorce, if it is the 9th time she does this, after she promised to have stopped whant to say that she is not more intrested in you
MrNiceGuy
@MrNiceGuy (4141)
• United States
31 Jan 07
9 times? Wow, dump her. THats unacceptable. She is trampling all over you. You are being a pushover, if she cheated 9 times, shes gonna do it again. What does that say about what kind of person she is? Do you want someone like that?
contusion12878
@contusion12878 (669)
• United States
31 Jan 07
OK Buddy. Wow. I had to re read your discussion a few times. Did you say 9 times. Wow. I know you love her, and theres probably a lot we all dont know, but I dont need to be a rocket scientist to tell you that its probably best if you both split up. If you think that is to drastic atleast go to speek with a couples therapist or something. The old expression is a cheater who cheats once will cheat a second time. 9 times is just wrong. Good luck to you.